In His Own Words
About him
I prefer to present as my female self. This isn't every day as it is not every day that the opportunity arises and, for the moment, have removed one picture from here as it was hijacked and used on another site.
Fortunately my alter-ego's good qualities transfer and I am just as reliable and decent as he is.
Unfortunately I come with his sense of humour.
I am quite domesticated and a fair cook. Plenty of long nights in snuggled up and cosy are every bit as good as a few long, loud, nights out. In between are restaurants, pubs and theatres while walking, travelling, reading and music have to be squeezed in too.
My vanity refuses to let me believe that I can pass as easily in public as I did when younger but, to date, I have never had a problem and friends assure me I am being overly cautious.
It would be wonderful to find somebody who lives in my part of the world and with whom I could build a friendship; enjoying a little time together, getting to know one another and perhaps developing a relationship?
Travelling is not a problem. I would be quite willing to entertain a distance relationship for the right man.
I am sorry, but I have no wish to meet anybody who enjoys - even slightly - a similar 'hobby'. I feel comfortable seeing myself as a 'straight' female and wish for the most part to function in that role with the man I hope to meet here. I fully realise that I'm in a niche market inside another niche market, but why not? Being open about this with those of you who are reading my words can't be a bad idea.
Being who I am I have to value tolerance highly but, if like me, you have the bejezzus irritated out of you by this site refusing to recognize all English spellings - we are off to a good start!
About his ideal match
A decent, tolerant and intelligent gentleman who will appreciate me for who I am and who I like to be. My goal is to find him and for the two of us to enjoy building a friendship and relationship with laughter and intelligence at its core.
Those strong, silent, types are in short supply and this suits me fine! Be strong if you wish but don't be silent. I like to talk and exchange what is going on in each other's minds.
Did you tick the box saying you are a 'Few extra pounds'? If that is genuinely true then please read on. If not, then I am sorry for sounding awful but overweight - as in overweight - just does nothing for me and I would feel terrible for wasting your time.
So.....if your friends think you are a nice fellow, and you have an interest in getting to know me as the woman I often like to be, please collect together your sense of humour, good manners and charm, then use your ingenuity to put us in touch.
I look forward to hearing from you.
What His Friends Say
KateOD hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About him
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Cirencester (Rural), Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district GL7 (Cirencester / Lechlade / Fairford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
30 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aussie Rules Football; Birdwatching; Camping; Hiking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |