In Her Own Words
About her
What lights up my day?
Sharing good times with my family and friends. Both are a source of joy for me. My family status is CGNGY (children grown no grandkids yet). I am close to my two beautiful daughters who are independent and pursuing their careers.
My work, running my own health business and a health charity, is challenging and fulfilling. My work/life balance needs a bit of help from someone who wants to go out to play.
How do I relax? Pottering in my small garden, walking by the river, cooking for friends, thinking about wines which complement food, spending weekends with friends in the country. Through my charity work I occasionally escape to the countryside and take autistic kids for a day with horses. There's no riding, just feeling the intuitive power of the horses. Horses are life-enhancers.
Music is another great life-enhancer. Classic FM, Radio 3, or an American jazz station are favourites for my daily music fix. Opera is a special interest. Glyndebourne has a special place in my heart and I have programmes going back to well before the new house was built. ENO has thought-provoking productions.
I enjoy the theatre - especially the Old Vic and Donmar Warehouse and local theatre in West London. Theatre and opera in cinemas is a great way to see thought-provoking productions.
Travel is part of my life. Paris was exciting when I went with friends. And then there is Italy; I have wonderful memories of visiting Tuscany, Umbria and Le Marche. I love exploring hill towns, visting vineyards and stopping for a doppio.
I would never go on holiday without books on the IPad but I also enjoy reading a proper book (preferably bought at Daunt's). It is such a pleasure to be reading a brilliant book at the moment.
I keep fit and appreciate that wellbeing is not delivered to us without any effort. I also know there are shadows. Life has given me my fair share of AFGOs. I suppose that is what builds resilience and determination to share adventures and appreciate loving and being loved.
About her ideal match
A friend recently said to me - "you have a good smile and a good heart and you need to share both". My ideal match needs to have a good smile and a good heart and want to share that with me.
Intelligence, intuition and interest in ideas are important. Trust, kindness, and a zest for life rate highly in what I am looking for in a man.
I would like to meet someone who shares interests in music and travel and understands the importance of dropping shoulders on a Friday night.
A favourite poem catches the spirit of meeting my match "When you start on your journey to Ithaca, then pray that the road is long, full of adventure, full of knowledge." I would like a man who wants to journey with me.
Deal breaker is wearing acrylic jumpers and not having a sense of humour.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Kensington & Chelsea (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district W14 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 71 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Jazz; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Hiking; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |