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SlightlyBonkers

48 – Northampton, Northamptonshire, England

Intelligent yet pleasantly crazy lady seeks kind and gentle man with oodles of humour.

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Northampton, Northamptonshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
48
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Auburn
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
IT / Telecoms
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district NN5 (Northampton)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
43 - 50
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English; Afrikaans; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh; Other
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Here's a temporary CV-style taster until I can give this more thought:

I love my work. I'm self employed, and will be found wearing smart yet feminine attire (once told by a colleague in a lovely West country accent "you're the best dressed person round 'ere"), or alternatively donning steel toe-cap shoes and a high-vis vest with a nice shift dress, a unique look

Responsible for introducing giant space-hoppers into the office, and also into a Pilates session

I'm pretty self-sufficient, but having bought a house with high ceilings I could now do with a man to help me change light-bulbs

My favourite holiday was to Garda in Italy. I loved the peace and tranquillity of the lake alongside the buzz of the town, with its bars, restaurants, random fashion shows, tango dancing, and travelling school bands. An ideal balance of town and country.

I appreciate great culture, such as theatre, music, great sights (again Italy - Florence and Venice being the most stunning places I've visited), as well as the simple things in life, such as sitting in the garden on a sunny day with great company.

I find photography very therapeutic. Subject matter being close-up flowers; lakes and rivers with water birds; general scenery; interesting buildings, and planes at airshows. (Yes, random).

Talking of airshows, I'm in the Cotswolds this week (by a lake) and off to the Royal International Air Tattoo this weekend. I'll be donning my best anorak and big lens. Already getting excited about hearing the thunderous roars of aircraft.

I love yoga and Pilates, and currently I have a personal training session each weekend (I surprisingly love the boxing).

The aforementioned are necessary because I love good food and wine, the odd G&T or bourbon and coke, and of course champagne goes without saying.

Family is important to me. I have parents, a brother, and an Aunt who are all very special to me.

Finally, I believe I have a sunny personality, and always look for the good in people.

About her ideal match

Here are my initial thoughts:

As mentioned in my own profile, I need you to help me change the light-bulbs I can't reach - that would be a fabulous start

Having done that, I'd like to feel I can amuse you and in return I'd love for you to make me laugh

After that, we can get on to having some shared likes - hopefully music and theatre and the desire to visit interesting cities as well as naturally beautiful places

It's also ok to have some interests we don't share. However, incessant viewing of sport on TV isn't up my street at all. That would be one good reason for having more than one television in a house. But if you're lovely enough in other areas we could probably find a way through this one. ;-)

I've come to realise that I do now deserve to find a kind and gentle man. However, what other traits come along with this I don't know.

Perhaps you are a calming influence, slightly tempering my more crazy side.

Or perhaps you are a more spontaneous get-up-and-go kind of person to galvanise me into action if I'm feeling more quiet and serious

I'd like to think that you're loving your life, but like me you wish to share that great life with someone special

Like me, you're looking for someone with whom to share experiences and build memories. Someone with whom you can share a look and know that the same amusing sight has been observed, or the same memory has been recalled

Essentially, someone with whom to enjoy the fun parts of life, whilst being able to support and be supportive, forgive and be forgiven during the more challenging moments. Someone real!

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More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Realistic; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion sense:
Smart (It's all about quality)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
Short
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Rock; World
Books:
Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading
Sports:
Backgammon; Dance; Skiing; Weight training; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Fish
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
Other
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Curious; Excited