About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Westerham, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN8 (Edenbridge) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
59 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In Her Own Words
About her
Why should you get to know me?
Because I am a thoughtful, caring, kind and confident woman who is looking for someone interesting in my life. Originally from Surrey, I now live in Kent working for a successful private prep school where I love watching children learn about life and how to succeed. With so many troubles in the world, my workplace is a haven of inspiration and kindness.
I really enjoy getting to know people and finding out how they tick. I love good conversations (spiritually, intellectually) with a like-minded soul mate, initially as a friend and hopefully leading to something far more precious. Life is so short that it would be a shame to waste even one day and how wonderful to spend time having fun with someone who enjoys your company.
I lead a busy life with lots of hobbies. I try to be active, going to the gym, swimming, walking, shopping! I particularly enjoy the Lake District or travelling further afield or just walking in the beautiful countryside when leaves are turning in Autumn, blossom in Spring or hazy days in Summer. This summer I travelled to Indonesia and Thailand.
My passions are: dabbling in art, pottery and writing. I have four amazing daughters, equally talented in their own way whom I am very close to and I love to spend time with. You will find me down to earth and honest. I enjoy theatre, films, lazy coffee shops, restaurants, easy weekends, Sunday lunch listening to jazz, warm summer evenings sharing valuable experiences with someone whom I can trust and give my heart to. Attraction is important; from that first moment you meet it feels like you have known that person all your life; that special person who just gets you. If you are interested please get in touch.
About her ideal match
I am looking for someone who is stable, confident, considerate and sorted in themselves (without baggage weighing them down), sexy, knows what they want and how to have fun, be open to meeting someone interesting. Mutual respect and the same values are also important, as is a sense of humour, a generous heart and attraction.
Pluses would be an interest in creative art, literature, books and all kinds of music and people, with an adventurous spirit but just having fun together are equally important.
Distance could be an issue but friends can communicate over long distances too so this can also be a plus. If there is chemistry then the rest will surely follow.
Deal breakers I would suggest are: not caring about your appearance or presentation (these are important to me); not being able to talk about deeper feelings; if you are married looking for just a fling (I am not interested).
If you are the one, then you must be loyal, emotionally intelligent and secure in yourself, have enthusiasm for life with a positive outlook; romantic and passionate with a lot of love to give. If you have style, warmth, with a caring personality, you are sure to be the one.
I like to see who I am talking to so unless you include a range of recent photos on this site I am unlikely to respond.
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More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Badminton; Dance; Pool; Running; Sailing; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
