In His Own Words
About him
In a nutshell I'm an ex-actor, ex-teacher, ex-smoker, ex-husband, and ex-convict.
I've eaten hors d'oeuvres with VIPs in the houses of parliament and shared bread with murderers at Her Majesty's Pleasure.
I've delivered conference papers to education specialists and food to the homeless.
I've won awards at short film festivals, published a book and been made redundant three times.
I have, in my time on this roller-coaster, experienced life at both ends of the spectrum (I'm sure theres's room for one more metaphor in here...). Consequently I have learnt to be laid-back and open-minded about most things and I try really, really hard not to judge people.
Despite all this excitement I am unfortunate enough to have spent most of my adult life being described as 'a very nice man' (apart from the divorce proceedings!). Most people who know me consider me intelligent, courteous and generous.
I did drama as my first degree for my sins, which was great fun but not really academically taxing, so I took a Masters a few years later. I had a long career working in education, first as a lecturer then as a senior manager. I have worked all over the country in such places as Liverpool, Bournemouth, Salisbury, Southwark.
I am now working in the charity/volunteer sector on a part-time basis which suits me very well for the time being, thank you very much.
I was determined to maintain my dignity during the divorce, which is just as well, because thats all I ended up with. But at least my family will be well looked after, and I wouldn't want it any other way.
I enjoy (in no particular order) walking, cycling, cinema, live performance, reading, creative writing, photography, film-making and composing music. I always have a project on the go, and a couple waiting in the wings.
About his ideal match
Empathy, wit, intelligence, humility, passion. My ex had none of these, so I thought I'd try something a bit different this time round. Any takers? Jokes aside they are important qualities that I have always found attractive in any human being.
If you've got this far then do you recognise the quote in my profile headline? It is of course from Joan Rivers, but you knew that.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Rotherham, Yorkshire - South, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district S65 (Rotherham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Patience; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Several times a week |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Bowling; Chess; Cycling; Hiking; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Curious; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
This is an unfair question |