In His Own Words
About him
You have probably read many similar personal ads that really tell you nothing about the person. Instead, I will try to give you a glimpse into what makes me the person that I think I am. If you spend the next few minutes reading my profile, you will see that I have a good head on my shoulders.
I firmly believe that life is what you make it and my life motto is to be the change that you want to see in the world. I am told that I can make people smile, as I like to think I can bring out the best in people. My friends say that I am going to make someone very happy one day - and I am still waiting! Mentally, I think my best attribute is my creativity and my sense of optimism. I know that I am not perfect, but I am honest enough to admit it. I suppose I am most proud of my unique approach to life as this has been primarily influenced by my life experiences.
If I wanted to impress you, I would probably make dinner for you or even take you out. If I were to compose a list of the top ten reasons to date me, one of them would surely be that I am someone you will be proud to call your friend.
I have recently decided to pack up work and now started running my own business. Not entirely sure why I didn't do it years ago. Its hard work, of course, but the rewards of being in control of your own destiny is worth alot more.
I have a varied range of interests. I love to travel, enjoy flying and recently discovered the pleasures of cruising (on the ocean - where else did you think!) I enjoy my home and garden greatly, but also enjoy the company of friends and others, having a drink somewhere, going out to dinner, the theatre, cinema or maybe the odd nightclub. My recent passion is for Argentine Tango (I am not that good at it- but its fun). I now dance at a samesex tango club in South London, and looking for a male partner. so if you are interested let me know. Nevertheless, I also like the simple things, such as nights in, a good DVD or movie and I normally throw in a good bottle of wine.
About his ideal match
So what might I be looking for?
Ideally, you should be between 35 and 60 years of age
I am looking for someone who is appealing, engaging, and well rounded. He should be loving, easygoing, balanced, and sincere. I also value loyalty, honesty, passion, and individuality. I would like my partner to be practical, good-natured, and down-to-earth and it would be refreshing to find someone who accepts me without reservation.
You will certainly grab my attention if you can appreciate a good thing when you see it! Physically, I tend to notice well groomed and a smart appearance in people. I have a couple "must-have" criteria: you should be "bearish"- medium stocky rugby build - but not overweight (I hope I haven't offended anyone!) Hairy - gets an A+, and I do not mind facial hair. And if you really want to go to the top of the class - dark hair and blue eyes - That will certainly have my undivided attention. I am a non smoker - and prefer the same.
I live in Southeast London on the boarders of Kent. Ideally, you should not live more than 2 hours from me. It is no fun trying to build or have a relationship when we spend all our time travelling back and forwards. I have my own car and house, but no pets or kids!
After reading this, you may think that I am looking for someone too good to be true. Not really. I just want a partner who has as much to offer as I do. I would like serious inquiries only please as I am not looking for a fling or casual sex. . No photo = no reply. If you think we might hit it off, please get in touch with me and let's see if magic happens!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Greenwich (North thamesmead), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SE28 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; One piercing |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Soap operas; Variety shows |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Photography; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dance; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |