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HavantHopeful

72 – Havant, Hampshire, England

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Havant, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
72
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
6' 2" (188cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Grey
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Marital status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in Europe
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district PO9 (Havant / Rowland's Castle)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
59 - 72
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 3" (159cm) - 5' 9" (176cm)
Body type:
Slim; Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Greying
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week; Most days
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Teaching / Education / Training; Home maker; Leisure / Tourism
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German
Religion:
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

N.B. I am currently back in Cyprus for the Autumn

A difficult one this! I was a teacher / lecturer in English and English as a foreign language in my past life, a job which enabled me to work both at home and abroad. During my working life, I have been lucky enough to have lived and worked in Europe, Asia, the near East and Africa as well as the UK. I have 3 grown up children, living in Australia, New Zealand and the UK.

Recently widowed, I am understandably finding it rather difficult to accept my new 'situation', and to come to terms with the fact that a social life built around couples is a difficult one to resume as a single person of 'mature years'.

I have been told that I am extremely sociable and outgoing. I think it very important in any conversation to make people feel at ease. I am quite tactile, though respect other people's feelings. I am in good health and have stopped keeping track of my age! I am optimistic, easygoing, and good-humoured and tend to 'always look on the bright side of life'.

I enjoy walking in the countryside and nature in all its forms. Since retirement, I have split my time, spending the summer and winter here and the spring and autumn in Cyprus - though that may change in the future. I like cooking and holding dinner parties as well as eating out,

I spend a couple of hours everyday on-line.

About his ideal match

I really miss female companionship, someone to meet up with over a drink or a meal, to go out to the cinema or theatre or a concert with and with whom I can enjoy a conversation, someone who is easy to get on with, who is sympathetic and supportive, but equally not afraid to speak her mind. Someone who accepts me the way I am as I would her. Someone who still enjoys cooking but wouldn't mind if I offered from time to time.
But I fully appreciate that, without a certain physical attraction such things are secondary. So I hope someone out there may find my face reasonably attractive, and would want to learn more!

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Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Average
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I have a goatee
Body hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
It has its moods
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Green
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Seafood
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Reading; Shopping; Woodwork
Sports:
Hiking; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Power; Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Honesty:
Extremely