In His Own Words
About him
Easy-going, well-travelled guy living on the Surrey/London border. I have an eclectic taste in music, and sing & perform. I enjoy going to concerts and movies. I love city breaks, beach and activity holidays, and keep fit by walking, hiking and cycling. I also enjoy cooking & eating out with friends.
I’m 185cm, 85kg. INFJ, 🔀🔁 & LTR orientated. Happy to meet, have a drink and if there’s chemistry see where we get. I’m attracted to men my age or younger.
My view on online dating is a bit like taking a punt on the lottery; you've got to be in it to win it.
My profile pictures are recent and were taken in 2023-25
About his ideal match
In an ideal world we would have some overlapping interests. Things that are important to me are monogamy and singing. I’d hope that you’d have itchy feet for travelling. City breaks, cycling holidays, camping/glamping, chugging along on a Canal in Provence with a glass of fizz and sunny beach holiday. I’ve recently returned from trips to Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan and the Philippines which I loved. Costa Rica, Namibia, Sri Lanka and Alaska are on my bucket list. Up for that?
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames (Lower Sunbury), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Italian | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district TW16 (Sunbury-on-Thames) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 57 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Agriculture; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; Afrikaans; Albanian/Kosovan; Croatian; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Woodwork |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Rowing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
