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Online: Saturday

Modified: 18 October 2017

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Hereford, Herefordshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
57
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Ask me later
Marital status:
Separated
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; A fling
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Consultancy / Design
Income:
Struggling
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Albania; Norway; Sweden; United Kingdom
Gender:
Male
Age range:
55 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
6' 1" (185cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Obviously this bit is impossible to answer ... but I'll go for
kind, lovely(!), empathetic and a good listener. I also think (and am told) I'm very resilient. Optimism helps.

This is all well and good but extremely bland ... more specifically would be the fact that travel is within my DNA - it's something I've done a lot of throughout my life, both for work and personal reasons, but it's taken a back seat for the eight years (ie recession and onwards). Trying to help people and finding out what they want, is very important to me (hence a career that has included 30 years or so of qualitative market research, counselling and mindfulness training and practice, but I am not a do-gooder, holier than thou or a hippy and I do not take myself too seriously!

Trying to keep reasonably fit is quite important to me as the decades pass, but again, I don't take it too seriously.

What I DO take seriously are my three kids (24, 22, 17), their lives and futures, and I wouldn't do anything that they weren't comfortable with. They're my rock (at the moment, anyway ... there's always room for another!).

About her ideal match

He would be tall (my whole family are very tall so anyone under 6' plus would feel very strange), reasonably good looking (I'm very shallow really!), and reasonably physically fit. (I don't find middle aged, flabby men in lycra particularly attractive but I guess I could make exceptions).

Intelligence is important and a broad interest in all arts, be they visual, music, film or literature. An appreciation of good design falls within thls, but more important still is humour: I want to meet someone who will make me laugh.

Finally, I want to meet someone who is loving and non judgemental, someone who is happy to accept my shortcomings, just as I will accept theirs (within reason!)/

Dealbreakers? Right wing outlook, Little Englanders, poisoned dwarfs, and introspectives.

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More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
Medium; It has its moods
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Other
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Talk shows
Movie preferences:
Documentary; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sports:
Sailing; Skiing; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like them Well Done
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Current relationship:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Left of centre
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Curious