In His Own Words
About him
You know when you drag a fish out of the ice?
No, nor do I , but I have been described as a cold fish......That's only because I work in secure mental health nursing and I have to have big thick walls up.
Crack through them though (and truly, I want someone who can!) and I think you'll find my huge heart, with a long back history ranging from hot air ballooning, owning an African adventure company and (back down to basics) a love of cooking for the people in my life.
I will ignore anyone who ever uses and "Txt spk lol m8", and yes, I'm a pedant and outside of work, I cannot abide dull, thick people. (Harsh? well yes, probably!)
I'm not religious, in fact I hate organised religion, but I am quite spiritual.....
About his ideal match
I have a history of preffering ladies of above their Doctor's "Ideal weight limit"......That's not to say I don't find slim ladies attractive, but 'real' women are what I like.
I'm a gentleman motorcyclist (I prefer that to 'biker') and have ridden across several continents, but I'd love to build/buy an Earth-cruising vehicle and just go the opposite way to the weather each day- the further away from so called civilisation the better.
I'm sorry, I hate the smell of cigarette smoke- I'm reformed and I vape, but cigarette smoke puts me off.
OK, I may appear to be getting fussy now but I want a lady who can wear sloppies and be chilled, but also who can 'brush up well' as they say.....No make up is way better than too much.
Oh, and one who can correctly answer the following question.....
What is the most important sex organ in the human body?..
a) Genitals
b) Erogenous zones
c) The mind
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Colchester, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
6' 4" (193cm) | |
Body type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CO12 (Harwich) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Auburn; Red; Changes Often; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Melancholy; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Opera; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Cooking; Internet; Meditation; Photography; Sculpting; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Motorsport; Orienteering; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Surf skiing/kayaking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
