Fanum

51 – Colchester, Essex, England

Mental health worker, ex-explorer with huge heart and a desire to travel

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Colchester, Essex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
51
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
6' 4" (193cm)
Body type:
Large
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Other
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; A fling
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district CO12 (Harwich)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
35 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Auburn; Red; Changes Often; Other
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

You know when you drag a fish out of the ice?
No, nor do I , but I have been described as a cold fish......That's only because I work in secure mental health nursing and I have to have big thick walls up.
Crack through them though (and truly, I want someone who can!) and I think you'll find my huge heart, with a long back history ranging from hot air ballooning, owning an African adventure company and (back down to basics) a love of cooking for the people in my life.

I will ignore anyone who ever uses and "Txt spk lol m8", and yes, I'm a pedant and outside of work, I cannot abide dull, thick people. (Harsh? well yes, probably!)

I'm not religious, in fact I hate organised religion, but I am quite spiritual.....

About his ideal match

I have a history of preffering ladies of above their Doctor's "Ideal weight limit"......That's not to say I don't find slim ladies attractive, but 'real' women are what I like.
I'm a gentleman motorcyclist (I prefer that to 'biker') and have ridden across several continents, but I'd love to build/buy an Earth-cruising vehicle and just go the opposite way to the weather each day- the further away from so called civilisation the better.
I'm sorry, I hate the smell of cigarette smoke- I'm reformed and I vape, but cigarette smoke puts me off.

OK, I may appear to be getting fussy now but I want a lady who can wear sloppies and be chilled, but also who can 'brush up well' as they say.....No make up is way better than too much.

Oh, and one who can correctly answer the following question.....
What is the most important sex organ in the human body?..

a) Genitals
b) Erogenous zones
c) The mind

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Melancholy; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Self-control
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I have a goatee
Body hair:
Smooth
Disabilities:
I have none
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Opera; World
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Travel
TV habits:
I don't have a television
Movie frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Cooking; Internet; Meditation; Photography; Sculpting; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Camping; Canoeing; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Motorsport; Orienteering; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Surf skiing/kayaking; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Not any more
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
Castle in Scotland
Retirement plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very