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StepMan57

57 – Eastleigh, Hampshire, England

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Modified: 22 August 2018

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Eastleigh, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
57
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; A fling
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Ask me later
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Ask me later
Other languages:
English
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district SO50 (Eastleigh)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
50 - 62
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No; Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days
Education:
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Until recently, my professional life and the passions flowing from it, have been devoted to Classical Music and the Performing Arts. Especially Opera. Friends and colleagues tell me that I am reliable, dependable, compasionate, articulate and a great listener. Having worked for three Arts Festivals, two professional Orchestras (both frequently heard on Classic FM), a major Opera House, and a Local Authority Arts and Events service, I am now easing myself into retirement. I am not ready for this development yet, and so to earn income I work for one of the Country's leading retailers. My hobbies include singing bass (I sing with two local choral societies) and leading on the marketing and audience development for one of them. I try to be optimistic but this can often flip into being a stoic about life, which is tempered by my sense of the spiritual and wonder at our world.
I also love Italy and both this year and last year I went there to see Opera performances. These were good, but I did realise I had a growing sense of something missing - someone to share this opera driven dolce vita with me. Potresti essere la mia prima donna?

About his ideal match

I feel that my perfect match would be someone who had a number of (but not all of) the qualities listed below. Ideally she might be: highly intelligent; self-confident; musical; articulate; considerate; tactile; attractive; and stylish.
To work our relationship would be based on mutual trust, respect, and empathy, a sense of fun and delight in each other's company, combined with a willingness to respect each others' space as well as a high degree of intimacy. I would love to share the thrill of performing, going to performances (especially those of Opera), and thoughtful conversations held on a country walk. And as to deal breakers, I fear I find undeserved arrogance, untrustworthiness, and stridency a real turn off.

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite colour:
Red
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have a chronic illness; I have a hearing impairment
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Opera; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Soap operas; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Acting; Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Diabetic
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Very