In His Own Words
About him
Retired Building Surveyor, now involved doing volunteering work with weekly gardening in our local town Park. More recently also do some paid gardening work fortnightly.
Following retirement, did Uni short courses in History/Archaeology ( 2014-15) along with 3.5 years on a large Conservation Project. An animal lover, mainly dogs and some cats. A regular dog minder/walker for family/close friends. My friends would describe me as very friendly/ quirky, and sometimes chatty with dry sense of humour. Generally a happy go lucky person. I have a adult daughter in Sweden, and son with partner in outer London,(now first time parents Dec '18, and me a grandparent). I love being in their company, for visits/ days out.
Seeking a lady friend that enjoys the outdoors with walks/treks, seashore, hill walks. Outings to theatre/cinema/culture. Love musical variety, Classic, Reggae, Blues, Choral, orchestral.
Can appear to be quiet, due perhaps to slight hearing loss. Remain quietly confident, unselfish and caring. Served in HM Forces ( Corps of Royal Engineers) during the 70's. Spend time with family history on line, and enjoy books, some tv, but not soaps. Also enjoy doing walks/treks solo, or with my family.
About his ideal match
A lady with a sense of humour allied to a good understanding of people. A degree of compassion and lightheartedness would be welcome.
A lady to be open about life is good too. Some people are subject to good/ not so good memories, but to live for the now is appealing, and can be progressive I believe.
Like to share common activities, walks/treks country/coastal, swimming, cycling, cinema. To also have quiet times, cosy chats, reading, tv viewing, films, theatre. Have done the sporty things years ago, Judo, rugby, football, skiing, athletics. Did college Am/dram many years ago. More recently signed up with agencies to do Tv/Film/Doc background work as an extra.
A deal breaker would be meeting someone not in the mood to chat, or appears bored. A meet up should be something to look forward to, even as strangers. I'm very willing to give it a try.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Basildon (Essex), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Isle of Man | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
65 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Other | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; German; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Rugby; Skiing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
