In His Own Words
About him
Too many books, hobbies, and stuff which might come in useful (is this a trait of engineers or it because I have had to clear too many houses as an Executor?).
After a service as an Officer in the RAF, I seem to be as busy as ever. Although I have been content on my own for some years, I would like to find that special someone again with whom to share what life delivers. I am not too old to fall in love again.
Please do make contact - you will never know if there is chemistry or compatibility unless you dip your toe in the water.
I have just returned (Oct 2023) from the long drive to Portimão (Portugal) – I was helping at a sailing regatta for disabled sailors.
I enjoy theatre and opera, some films, musicals and concerts; how much better are such things when the experience is shared. Playing Bridge keeps my brain working. I always have a variety of books on hand on a range of subjects.
Practical at home, in the garden and I enjoy cooking. I look after myself (Pilates) and I have two eyes, arms and legs, and the space between my ears enjoys being challenged – preferably every day.
I find sailing yachts brings happiness (once I’ve forgotten being cold and wet!); I enjoy voyaging on canals (very good for dog walking but it so much more fun with someone else).
I visit France at least once a year to see friends and to enjoy the French life.
I believe I am a happy, caring, compassionate and tactile person. I am loyal and supportive friend; I am a poor mind-reader - I know that being completely open makes for greater comfort.
I am far from perfect, nor have I been blessed with film star looks. There is so much more to me than this brief note; so don’t be shy – ask! My main profile photo was Nov 2020, others are not that recent, but I'm told that I have not changed!
I do not think I can have a satisfactory conversation in endless messages and much prefer speaking and meeting in person.
I am willing to drive to meet - distance should not be an obstacle.
About his ideal match
What am I seeking? It's all in the compatability and chemistry.
Someone who will lift my heart and whose voice and smile cheers me - I hope that you would feel the same. You will have opinions and not be reluctant to challenge me.
If you can play bridge - even as a beginner - that would good.
We will share some interests and accept those that we do not share. If you've never been on canals, you will be willing to try to handle a boat.
Someone who is interested in life and living; who would like to share the autumn of their life; who would rather read than clean house! There will be a meeting of minds. You will want to share your joys and sadnesses and expect me to do the same.
I’d like a companion who enjoys gazing into the embers of the fire; someone who likes holding hands and hugs and cuddling.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
79 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
68 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; French | ||
Other languages: |
Italian; Portuguese; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Politics; Reading; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sports: |
Sailing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Out of control |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
This is an unfair question |