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ATANPLOT

58 – Oxford, Oxfordshire, England

Is it only me who isn’t obsessed with skiing, food and dancing?

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
58
Star sign:
Gemini
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Balding
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX2 (Oxford)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
56 - 64
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

OK...... so, some of my LIKES:
My duvet - as it never complains, it always seems pleased to see me and doesn’t mind books, magazines and my laptop spread over it.
Visiting & exploring new places (see, I do leave my bed) - I have a list of places I’d like to visit... not really a bucket-list as such, more a random set of destinations that change frequently.
Films & Music - who doesn’t? (I appear to have the imagination of a caravan site so far)
Reading - I have purchased a Kindle as an incentive, but there’s something reassuring about having a book in your pocket. However, I think I am on Waterstones’ ‘person of interest’ list because I keep going in and photographing book covers on my phone.
Cycling - watching and doing (not competitively) & walking.
Taking a photograph that I feel satisfied enough to think, “How would that look blown up?” (not including book covers at Waterstones)
I apologise in advance that there’s nothing earth-shatteringly original here, but I did manage to get the word ‘duvet’ in and not many can say that. OK, not many would want to say that, but it could be the deciding factor in some cases. Who doesn’t like reading in bed or planning trips on a Sunday morning when the weather is inclement with a cup of tea/coffee?
Basically, I like to keep things simple and honest, I have integrity, spontaneity, have travelled a little (home & abroad), can hopefully string a sentence together and I think I have a very good (probably dry) sense of humour. Plus those are serious laughter-lines I have in the photos.
I have tried to avoid the obvious cliches: dressing-up / jeans; partying / curling-up on the couch; high-heels / wellies; meals out / home cooking; etc. I have nothing against these past-times per se; and should stress now that I don’t wear high-heels.
PS I still don’t know what ‘sassy’ means! And is my life truly meaningless and empty because I don’t ski and I’m not seemingly obsessed with food & wine all of the time?

About his ideal match

By now, for better or for worse, we probably have a pretty good idea of what we think these qualities might be in someone else. However, I am not going deliver a huge diatribe here, as a large majority of the key things have been covered in the criteria section and I openly admit that the matching ‘percentage’ numbers continue to flummox me; and that ‘left-field’ is not a bad place to come from after all.

Also, from experience, I think it may be beneficial to add a few pointers that I know for sure I do not want:
Dishonesty.
Those who are clinging on to the past or still have unfinished business there.
Pets (predominantly dogs, horses & cats). I have nothing against pets, but if they’re the most important thing in your life, then I am NOT for you. Experience has shown that spontaneity and pets don’t really work in the same sentence.
Right, that should have put just about everyone off!

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Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Music; Photography; Reading; The arts
Sports:
American Football; Aussie Rules Football; Baseball; Cycling; Hiking; Ice Hockey; Mountain biking; Rugby; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I don't have any family
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Turn-ons:
Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Flirting
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Never
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely