About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Birmingham, West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; Disabled | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
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In Her Own Words
About her
Almost everything written below is pre-3rd Lockdown so now is a good time to meet friends. A good starting point though.
So I said to myself, "Self, how did I get to this age so fast? My mind says I'm mid-30's but paper doesn't :( and, why are you waiting for the right person to come knocking on your door? Your kids are nearly off to university, you've had enough wake up calls one of which was a health scare" - changed my perspective on life. So here I am. Looking for a special male friend who could become more.
I'm trying to be fairly specific but remain open minded. I'd really love start going out and enjoying life again - with the right person. I'd like staying in and enjoying life too. Not a couch potato but I occasionally I love to curl up and watch something on TV as a treat. It would be nice to do that with the right person. I'm quite independent but making quality time with a really special person is an exciting prospect when we make time for each other.
I am a writer - fiction and non-fiction (science background - engineering, design, biological sciences etc). It takes up a lot of my time at the moment. Sometimes it consumes me and I have to force myself to relax.I would like someone to encourage me and find new ways of relaxing.
I can't think of any music that I don't really like. It's important to me every day. My favourite musician is Prince, favourite film is Pulp Fiction, favourite composer is Chopin. Bruce Lee was genius. Bob Marley was a Legend. I have lots of plans for the future and I'm looking for someone who's open to new things. I do have a slight mobility problem which makes me more creative in my outdoor and exercise pursuits. I am very tactile, love hugs and cuddles.
I have no idea how this is going to work out during the pandemic, but I guess this will be a new dance we'll learn to do...
About her ideal match
It's so hard to be prescriptive. My ideal match will have emotional intelligence. He will also have a good sense of humour and appreciate a good life whatever that means to you. Enjoy laughter and make me laugh too, even when times are rough will be a good start. Definitely a half-full glass person who is kind, appreciates good company, enjoys looking after himself and wants a good friend before a lover. I admire wisdom and masculinity in men. Kindness, motivation, thoughtfulness and open-mindedness are qualities I also really admire. If you like to keep fit, enjoy travel adventures, and know how to treat a lady, we could be off to a good start. I often need space and time to write, so if you are needy I may not be a good match. If you love cuddles and know how to relax that's a good start.
The things that would make a relationship work for me are intellect, someone who knows themselves and is willing to share themselves and willing to really get under my skin before the duvet. Good humour, manners and good natured are essential qualities. Also, gentle and open-mindedness are important to me as well as integrity. I'd know you are special if I can't wait to tell you everything and everything and you feel the same - no judgement or recriminations.
I'd like to share Tai Chi and Qi Gong with a partner but not essential, also swimming, going to the gym and spas. I like the idea of cooking a meal together and really enjoy being outdoors in good weather. Time to be honest - I really don't like sitting in front of a TV and watching football = dealbreaker, likewise smoking, excessive drinking. I would like someone who doesn't embrace getting older who enjoys some of the new things around us and who thinks of age as just a number and feels younger in their heads than on paper. In the end I guess it will come down to chemistry and compatibility.
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More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; American Football; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Canoeing; Fishing; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
