About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Birmingham, West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; Disabled | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In Her Own Words
About her
3rd edit:
So I said to myself, "Self, what are you doing waiting for the right time to meet someone? Your kids are nearly off to university, you've had enough wake up calls (one of which was how did I get to 58 so quickly/suddenly?!) and that book your writing won't finish itself but you should start meeting people - that's not going to happen by itself either." So here I am. Looking for a best friend who will become my lover and more. Needle in a haystack? Maybe/maybe not.
I used to be quite easy going about dating but too many frogs later I'm going to try to be fairly specific but remain open minded.
I'd really love start going out and enjoying life again - with the right company. I'd like staying in and enjoying life too. Many things give me pleasure, from small things like watching my garden start to come alive with early spring bulbs, to a weekend trip to New York or Europe.
I always write my Christmas cards wishing great health, happiness and wealth for forthcoming year. So those things are very important to me and are all open to interpretation.
I'm not a couch potato but I do love to curl up and watch a good film or TV series now and again as a treat. It would be nice to do that with the right person. I'm quite independent but I'd like to spend quality time with a really special, nice man.
I am a writer - fiction and non-fiction. I have to force myself to relax sometimes and would like someone to encourage me and find new ways of relaxing.
I am a bit shy at first and never make the first move - yes, old school - but confident.
I love almost all kinds of music - I can't think of any that I don't really like just now. I listen to some kind of music every day. My favourite musician is Prince, favourite group is Queen (at the moment) and my favourite film is Pulp Fiction. Favourite classical composer is Chopin. Bruce Lee was genius. Steve Harvey makes me smile and music from the 80's and 90's makes me happy and nostalgic. Did I say I love Caribbean food? But I'm useless at cooking it sadly.
About her ideal match
My ideal match will have emotional intelligence. He will also have a good sense of humour and enjoy the good things in life including being able to enjoy laughter and make me laugh too. Definitely a half-full glass person who is kind, appreciates good company, enjoys looking after themselves and wants a best friend before a lover. I'm looking for someone who is wise, motivated, purposeful, enjoys music, literature, film, theatre, outdoors, keep fit, travel adventures, and someone who knows how to treat a lady.
The things that would make a relationship work for me are intellect, someone who knows themselves and is willing to share themselves and willing to really get under my skin before the duvet. Good humour, manners and good natured are all qualities I admire. Also gentle and masculine are important to me.
I'd like to share Tai Chi and Qi Gong with a partner and also swimming, going to the gym and spas. I like the idea of cooking a meal together and really enjoy being outdoors in good weather. Time to be honest - I really don't like sitting in front of a TV and watching football = dealbreaker, likewise smoking, excessive drinking and anyone who likes Netflix and chill. I would like someone who doesn't embrace getting older and looks after himself but who enjoys some of the new things around us and who thinks of age as just a number.
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More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; American Football; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Canoeing; Fishing; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Other |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
