In His Own Words
About him
I believe in living life to the full. Living life not for the sake of fleeting pleasures and happiness, but in ways that lead to continual joy! For life will be meaningless if happiness could only be transient, if all enjoyment would always remain a passing affair.
That can be called my life goal. In other words, I do not see myself as already approximating to this life principle, but as one working towards it.
I think I have acquired a few habits and traits: a love for deep and objective reflection; a desire for empathetic and compassionate understanding; ambitions for the furtherance of myself and my talents for the sake of my environment; a liking for lively but responsible diversion ; a propensity for continual self- examination in the light of my life principle…
I love art -- literary art, classical music, and Fine art. Creations which any receptive layman can understand, as distinct from intellectual works which require special knowledge for their appreciation. I like dramatic art, too ( though I have not really visited a theatre in a long while!) --- plus TV shows/films, those rich in life and substance, that entertain and give a slice of life, or harmless comedy that spring such uproarious surprises on viewers!...
Finally, while I try to show understanding and tolerance for my own shortcomings and those of others,I would hardly be able to put up with gross disloyalty and inconsistency.
About his ideal match
I would appreciate an intimate connection with a woman of sincere interest in genuine womanliness. Womanliness, as a personal attribute, not a physical or outward one. As a quality which can be cultivated!
I believe “womanliness” is synonymous with grace: a refinement of life outlook that shows itself in speech, conduct and dressing, that is exemplified in a sensitivity capable of recognising what is really of value in people, animal and things, and what is truly harmful in all these -- irrespective of what society thinks about them! Thus popular, even respectable traditions, might come across as unhealthy to a womanly woman.
To be womanly, therefore, is not the same as having feminine shape or female reproductive organs. Nor has it any bearing on the fulfilment of stereotypical female roles of marrying, bearing children and supporting a family, though these could be quite beneficial in the right circumstances.
I am, of course, not looking for one who already bears genuine womanliness (since, strictly speaking, I myself am hardly a genuine man as yet), but for one sincerely desirous of it! I desire this connection because it would be quite gratifying to be able to support her in her fundamental life endeavours.
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About him
Country of origin: |
Nigeria | |
Location: |
Crawley, West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English; French | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RH11 (Crawley) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
23 - 49 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Financial services; Food / Catering; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Agriculture; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Camp |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News; Reality shows; Soap operas |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Running; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I moved to be away from them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Flirting; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Other |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
