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Richard626

59 – Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
59
Star sign:
Aquarius
Height:
6' 2" (188cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Dutch
Religion:
Atheist

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Female
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Has a photo:
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Want children:
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Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
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Any
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Home language:
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Religion:
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In His Own Words

About him

... this is no time to be backward in coming forward ...

First impressions of me might be that I’m tall, smiley, polite, and what used to be called ‘well-spoken’(!).

Second impressions might be that I’m warm, friendly, gentle-mannered, calm, and self-confident.

If you came round for coffee and asked an impossible number of questions you might come to know some obvious facts about me: that I’m musical (I’ve had a half-life-long passion for classical music, first as a pianist, then as a musicologist, and now as a teacher – music is an irreplaceable part of my life), that I’m educated (in life as well, I hope, but I spent a long time at university), that I’ve been a very hands-on parent to my two daughters (now 23 and 25), that I’ve always been interested in all the arts (but very biased towards Beethoven and George Eliot), that I've always enjoyed the natural world (long country walks, birds, picking wild fruit ... I'm a walker wanting a dog, but I'm still holding out for more than just canine companionship!), that I’ve never had any ambition to travel (but enjoyed many family holidays), and that I look after my health (mostly running and cycling).

Get to know me a little better and you might get the impression I’m intellectually capable (but far from an intellectual), needing some sort of intellectual life (I don’t think I’ve ever found a replacement for the end of my academic work; at the moment I study George Eliot), very fond of children (a very fulfilled parent and happy to be a teacher), not big on male bonding (I have two brothers, so that’s probably enough for me), not as charitably active as I would like, not as Green as I would like (I’m far more likely to save the smallest of spiders from the Hoover than 'save the planet', though, of course, I'm sensibly Green), quite socialist (but decidedly not a fan of that late-blooming egoist and convincing fake, JC) ...

About his ideal match

... very Europhilic (hair tearing at the moment, though I'm still optimistic that the forces of togetherness are far stronger than those of separation), quite feminist (but never denying the differences between men and women), and I far prefer depth to breadth.

Knowing me better still you might think I’m ‘romantic’ (I can be sentimental over even shallow representations of boy plus girl. But what is it to be 'romantic'? Isn't it, more fundamentally, *relationship idealism*? - which can apply to more than just one's 'romantic' relationships), optimistic (maybe nice to live with but it’s better to be realistic), candid and expressive (very willing to let my feelings show), quietly opinionated (but always liking to be contradicted and challenged), very kind, emotionally intelligent (at least I've always been interested in how people and relationships work), quite an extreme Myers Briggs INFJ, and fundamentally serious (though always keen to see all the humour in everyday life).

And in a relationship I would describe myself as loving, emotionally robust, sensitive, honest, loyal, reliable, responsible, attentive, thoughtful, confessional and easily intimate, maybe quite intense, very sympathetic and supportive, a bit stubborn, organised, maybe a bit unspontaneous, naturally a bit indoorsy (because my interests are there, but I would go anywhere to please!), physically demonstrative, very cuddly (it’s state of mind!), physical and sensual, and playful.

* * * * * *

Who or what am I looking for? In a word – intimacy; feeling together in every way. Physical intimacy. Mental intimacy - really knowing and really being known; sharing not only life but oneself. And emotional intimacy, which might be another way of saying love, which only develops over time. Someone to build a ship with, one that would not only give us a wonderful view of the sun on the sea but carry us through life's rough waters.

Richard

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Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Straight
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Light
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; World
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
TV programmes:
News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Music; Politics; Reading; The arts
Sports:
Athletics; Cycling; Rugby; Running; Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Food:
Doesn't matter; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
Labour
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely