About him
I'm relaxed, easy going, don't get uptight about life and never lose my 'cool' under any circumstances.
I write for relaxation, (I used to do it for a living) and have several books in print, one on environmental politics/science and an erotic novel, also a book of erotic poetry.
I've been told they are on an intellectual level, not crude, (which I detest anyway)....Not up for the Booker prize just yet---but one never knows! Maybe that indicates creativity on several levels. I enjoy originality, you will certainly find that with me.
There is an intense pleasure in creating softly whispered wordpictures in a 1 to 1 situation, and I am a master storyteller. (and modest with it too)
There must be a degree of creativity in every aspect of a relationship, and would expect that in return. For me, the most intense pleasure is creating and giving it to someone not shy of demanding it and reciprocating it.
Intellect is an incredible turn-on. I have a wide range of interests It isn't possible to ignore what's happening in the world around us. Intelligent conversation 'between times' is important, as is humour. Things can and do go wrong, mutual laughter is critical.
I am not in the least possessive; under no circumstances will I chase or seek to persuade. The only lock on my door is the one you close yourself and bring me the key. When you feel the time is right you will do just that. I will never tell you to.
There are ways to make a woman feel beautiful.
Control of self is an absolute.
Equally, you will be free to leave when you choose.
You must have the self confidence to come to me for what you need. I am content within myself, but sharing a few of life's experiences would be a bonus, and you might enjoy that too. I do not tire, whether you want to talk all night, or anything else you might have in mind.
My description of an 'ideal match' will tell you more about me I think
I would expect us to be able to converse on a broad spectrum, because my interests are wide ranging.
About his ideal match
You are a woman with a creative, positive outlook on life, similar to my own. I am looking for someone bold enough to seek out what she wants, and with the confidence to demand it. I can bring you the 'older man' level of experience, and creative adventures you will be bound to enjoy
You know what you are looking for, and not shy about saying what it is. I do like boldness in a woman. Bland docility is a turnoff for me. You are looking for a man who knows how to bring a controlling influence into your life, but only at the emotional level you desire. And never exceed that.
There must be a certain old fashioned courtesy and understanding, without restricting your ultimate freedom in the slightest. There must also be an intellectual capacity that matches yours. Someone able to converse deeply, but laugh lightly and not take life too seriously. Someone with a need to explore life with you in every sense of the word, match your every step and be acutely aware of your desires.
Someone who will give you all the freedom you seek, and never try to restrain you until your boldness takes you there.
Should you be so inclined, I think that you will be bound to enjoy my company.
But such choices must always be yours if a relationship should develop. If all this strikes a chord with you, and certain ideas spring to mind then feel free to exchange them with me, and add them to those that I have planted here. Tell me of thoughts that might enthral you? Perhaps you want to go to places you have yet only dreamed of, or perhaps you have already been there and want to go again?
If you've read this far, you are perhaps amused, bemused or your interest has been sufficiently aroused to get in touch, in the full knowledge of where your inclinations are leading you. Should a link be forged between us, you will always be free to be the woman you want to be, maybe freer than you've ever been.
