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JNH

69 – Esher (East Molesey), Surrey, England

Widower looking for permanent full relationship with easy-going woman

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Esher (East Molesey), Surrey, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
69
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district KT8 (East Molesey / West Molesey)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
57 - 68
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 1" (186cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
University
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I am a father of 4 adult children. My lovely wife passed away in June 2018 after 37 wonderful years. I am looking for a companion with similar interests. I enjoy the outdoors, sport and classical music. I am a keen walker, shop & move around locally by cycle or bus in preference to the car, swim, golf and occasionally ski. I also sing in two choirs including my church choir. I am in good shape and active. I also enjoy reading, watching old films (Talking Pictures is a favourite channel) & spending time with my family & friends. I work part-time from home & like to keep busy. I am looking forward to finding a wholesome, romantic, relaxed & kind person to spend time with in a permanent full relationship.
I enjoy cooking & baking & entertaining at home rather than going out to restaurants. I would enjoy cooking for you at home & cuddling together rather than dining out.
I am a church-going conservative but respect other people's opinions. Am just as likely to fall in love with, say, a labour supporter or an agnostic.

About his ideal match

I miss the intimacy of a full loving supportive permanent relationship.
I also miss the warm feeling of when occasionally one's eyes meet with the other's & you are confident in the feel of the deep love coming through.
A partnership where there is no need to say anything gratuitous/by rote like "how are you" or are you "feeling better". A good partner will know how & when to support the other.
I am not keen on going overboard on the habitual exchanging of presents at Christmas or birthdays or anniversaries. If I buy something really special it is often something out-of-the-blue & not tied to any date.
From the above you will probably realise that I am looking for someone who is spontaneous, natural & confident & relaxed in her partner.
I am looking for a partner who will enjoy her own space & independence, activities & friends but who at the same time might become interested in some of my activities & friends. I happened to like all my late wife's friends & she liked all my friends. Not surprising as we liked the same sort of people. We had a natural balance of doing things separately, together but on our own, or together with friends. My wife suddenly & to my surprise took up golf. I became more & more interested in music.
I am used to someone who is forgiving & who leaves criticism to when it is really important rather than to minor day-to-day aberrations. Normally, the person who says or does something silly will realise almost immediately & so does not need someone to state the obvious. In other circumstances something might have to be said, feelings might be hurt, tempers lost but always sweet reconciliation & love when things calm down. A forgiving nature is essential.
So when an honest forthright conversation does need to be made each person understands where the other person is coming from & gives each other time to explain their position. One or two subjects may be taboo. Fair enough.
Apologies if the above all seems a bit heavy.

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Shy; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Favourite clothing:
I'm most comfortable naked
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Classical
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport
Movie frequency:
Never
Movie preferences:
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Reading; Singing
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Athletics; Cricket; Cycling; Field Hockey; Football (Soccer); Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Orienteering; Rugby; Skiing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I always cook at home
Dietary Restrictions:
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Turn-ons:
Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Once a week
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Excited
Honesty:
Very