Cat789

58 – East Grinstead, West Sussex, England

Lovable woman wants lovable man to share life adventures

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Online: 15 February 2021

Modified: 15 February 2021

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About her

Country of origin:
South Africa
Location:
East Grinstead, West Sussex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
58
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district RH18 (Forest Row)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
56 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Dear visitor to my profile – I hope you won’t mind answering a few quick questions to save us both time:

Do you believe that COVID 19 is a terrifying, deadly virus that has us all at its mercy?
Do you support the enforcement of lockdowns, mask-wearing, vaccines etc?
Do you regard attempts to question the motives behind control measures as ‘conspiracy theory’?
Are you a ‘sceptic’ when it comes to holistic/complementary/alternative health?
Do you consider animal rights, sustainability or investing in the development of renewable energy unnecessary luxuries that our governments cannot afford?
Are you a Tory or any other kind of right-winger?
Do you reject the notion that each of us might have a sou’ that reaches beyond this life?

If you’ve answered YES to any of the above, thank you for your time. Please look elsewhere and I wish you every success with your search for a woman compatible with your outlook.

If you’re still here (after having answered NO to all of the above) – I welcome you and invite you to read on.

While I love my own company and have a great many hobbies and interests, I am ready to meet a kind, funny and interesting man to hang out with, at least to help preserve sanity during lockdowns, and who knows, perhaps more!

About her ideal match

I could list all sorts of qualities and ideals, but we all know it's about chemistry - we'll either fancy each other or we won't, and we'll probably know in the first few minutes of meeting.

Deal breakers: please be someone who has an open mind, who cares about the greater good, the environment, animals, community, family, spiritual and emotional growth, authenticity.

Some of the things I’d love to share with the man in my life:
Regular connection with nature, through walks, hikes, camping/glamping/retreats
Delicious and nutritious meals, made with quality organic ingredients
Emotional and physical affection, tenderness and passion
Authenticity, respect, compassion, kindness, warmth, tolerance, loyalty, generosity, humour
Commitment to emotional growth through undertaking regular work with our blind spots and shadow sides
Supporting each other to face our fears, grief and rage, in order to be able to open up to more joy, to be the best version of ourselves to continue growing into people who are increasingly authentic, loving, and comfortable in our own skins
Culture, music and arts
Travel
Commitment to a healthy lifestyle, for people and the planet
Loving and respectful inclusion of family, friends and community
A positive outlook
Fun, laughter, joyous celebration of being alive

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Straight
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Independent
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading; Sewing; The arts
Sports:
Camping; Dance; Gymnastics; Motorsport; Sailing; Tennis; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Gluten-free; Lactose-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Not any more
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Politics:
Green
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Curious
Honesty:
Very