BlueEyedEmpath

48 – Southwark, London, England

A hopeful romantic with a dirty mind.

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
Ireland
Location:
Southwark, London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
48
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Other

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district SE1 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
29 - 37
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I'm a true gentleman with old-fashioned sensibilities and
new-man sensitivities, caring, compassionate, empathic,
honest and honourable. Things like fidelity and integrity are
very important to me and I would like a partner who shares
many of my values. I have had many profound and sometimes
traumatic experiences in life, and I value the lessons that I
have learned from them. They have not always been
comfortable but certainly valuable. As such, I am looking for
a woman with depth and authenticity who can share life's
journey with me. We can have a lot of laughs along the way
and not take ourselves too seriously except when needed. I
have nieces and nephews whom I love dearly and I can
certainly be playful and silly with them. I really want to have
my own family as well and be part of a team working together
in harmony to raise children.

I have never been interested in one-night stands or casual
sex. I have plenty of desire, I just choose to contain it within
a committed relationship. I fully respect that to some of you I
may sound like a prude, but believe me, I can be filthy in the
right context and in a committed and loving way. I am very
romantic and as such have real resistance to the process of
online dating because I really would rather just meet
someone and feel that chemistry.

I am very self-aware and emotionally intelligent and I
appreciate those qualities in others. I know that relationships
and intimacy trigger all sort of responses and I am very
willing to address things and work through them together as
allies. I don't drink alcohol and never have but I don't have
any judgement about others drinking. I am a sensitive soul,
and you would have to search a long way to find someone
with my core emotional stability and steadfastness.

I don't really have the travel bug or wanderlust that so many
on this site have and stating that feels tantamount to
blasphemy. I do like a nice holiday, I am just more of a home
body.

About his ideal match

Serious about finding a long-term partner, and willing
to get caught in a web of charm. Wanting to have children (at some point, no rush!) and physically able to do so. An appreciation for fidelity, honesty, loyalty and
kindness in others and also offer those qualities. Those
qualities should be present not just with me but with
everyone. I want someone who is kind to themselves, to me,
to the person that serves them coffee or waits on their table.
Willing to meet to see how well we get on. (That meeting can be virtual in these Covid days.)

(**A bonus would be if you can sing or play an instrument.**)

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Body hair:
Hairy
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Acting; Board games; Gardening; Music; Singing
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Dance
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Time at work:
I work part-time
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Politics:
Left of centre
Honesty:
Very