About him
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Southwark, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SE1 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
29 - 37 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
I'm a true gentleman with old-fashioned sensibilities and
new-man sensitivities, caring, compassionate, empathic,
honest and honourable. Things like fidelity and integrity are
very important to me and I would like a partner who shares
many of my values. I have had many profound and sometimes
traumatic experiences in life, and I value the lessons that I
have learned from them. They have not always been
comfortable but certainly valuable. As such, I am looking for
a woman with depth and authenticity who can share life's
journey with me. We can have a lot of laughs along the way
and not take ourselves too seriously except when needed. I
have nieces and nephews whom I love dearly and I can
certainly be playful and silly with them. I really want to have
my own family as well and be part of a team working together
in harmony to raise children.
I have never been interested in one-night stands or casual
sex. I have plenty of desire, I just choose to contain it within
a committed relationship. I fully respect that to some of you I
may sound like a prude, but believe me, I can be filthy in the
right context and in a committed and loving way. I am very
romantic and as such have real resistance to the process of
online dating because I really would rather just meet
someone and feel that chemistry.
I am very self-aware and emotionally intelligent and I
appreciate those qualities in others. I know that relationships
and intimacy trigger all sort of responses and I am very
willing to address things and work through them together as
allies. I don't drink alcohol and never have but I don't have
any judgement about others drinking. I am a sensitive soul,
and you would have to search a long way to find someone
with my core emotional stability and steadfastness.
I don't really have the travel bug or wanderlust that so many
on this site have and stating that feels tantamount to
blasphemy. I do like a nice holiday, I am just more of a home
body.
About his ideal match
Serious about finding a long-term partner, and willing
to get caught in a web of charm. Wanting to have children (at some point, no rush!) and physically able to do so. An appreciation for fidelity, honesty, loyalty and
kindness in others and also offer those qualities. Those
qualities should be present not just with me but with
everyone. I want someone who is kind to themselves, to me,
to the person that serves them coffee or waits on their table.
Willing to meet to see how well we get on. (That meeting can be virtual in these Covid days.)
(**A bonus would be if you can sing or play an instrument.**)
What His Friends Say
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More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Gardening; Music; Singing |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Dance |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Honesty: |
Very |
