In His Own Words
About him
I'll start at the end, because that's where I am now.
An eternal optimist. No matter how bad things get, it will get better. No matter how off-course we've drifted, we'll eventually find our way. No matter how many things have been lost or broken (whether real or intangible), I believe it can be mended, fixed, patched or replaced with something better. Something unexpected.
I like simple things. Reading, walking, cooking, music, movies, wandering.
I don't like normal. Normal often represents everything bad in our society. I loathe selfishness and arrogance. Takers and fakers also need not apply. I have little interest in stuff or things. Over many years I have accumulated a lot of stuff. It took some time for me to realize that none of it made me happy. In fact, it made me unhappy. I felt weighed down by a lot of pointless rubbish. Life should be about experiences, dreams, adventure, passion, love, freedom, family and friends.
I believe in the impossible. Our very existence is as close to impossible as you can get. I believe in magic. The fact we are here and alive is truly magical. I believe in love. I believe it's out there for everyone. We just have to look. Sometimes the best things turn up in the most unexpected places.
I come with a warning! I have two daughters aged 12 and 10. They don't live with me but I see them regularly. This, I know, will put a lot of people off. Also, I don't live in a house. Argh! What?! Sorry, I value freedom too much to be manacled to a heap of bricks and mortar. I hope your open minded...
About his ideal match
I would to meet someone who is relaxed, free and maybe a little wild. I don't care about baggage. We're all dragging some of that around. As long as you are light and carefree on the inside. You don't let things get you down. You believe in equality and righteousness. A dreamer. A believer. A fighter.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 3" (191cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SS1 (Southend-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 54 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Politics; The arts |
Sports: |
Archery; Hiking; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Tent in the woods |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |