In Her Own Words
About her
I am fun, loving, happy, serious, grumpy, sexy, flirtatious, brave, shy, self conscious, confident, energetic, tenacious, lazy, love to party, love to be quiet.. I can be bossy and submissive all in the same day, so yes, it's complicated to explain to strangers!
Gosh, I am all of the above because I'm a real woman not a Stepford wife, well I might be for a bit... one day... for a while...
However, my more sustainable traits - integrity, trustworthiness, truthfulness, inquisitiveness and I love an adventure even if it's just going to a new restaurant for something I've never tried before.
I am reasonably fit and healthy and love to walk in the countryside or by the beach, or through an interesting city, I am a gym member..... (should perhaps actually go) I enjoy watching sport in person and the occasional tv game of rugby or football can be enjoyed if the company is enthusiastic and I can be caught up in that.
I have started to learn how to ride a horse, loving that but not really very confident yet.
Love the theatre, eating out or having someone cook for me.
I've been lucky enough to travel to China, Indonesia, India, Australia, USA (spent a year in my 20's there) and most of Europe but would love to go back to Switzerland and my favourite city is Florence.
I prefer to be on the water rather than in it. Since seeing Jaws when I was 13 I have a huge fear of the sea - yep ridiculous I know!
About her ideal match
An ideal match would be someone who is interesting and is interested in showing me new things and be happy for me to be his number one. He must be strong and secure in himself with a sense of fun and adventure and not just a thrill seeker or adrenaline junkie, although I would be happy to be a considerate bystander if you really want to jump off rocks and things, I'll hold your bag at the bottom and watch with awe, as long as there is good coffee on hand and a comfy chair.
He will be kind and patient and understand that the way that life works: sometimes it's fab, sometimes its not but it's not personal!
Most of all someone to share my bucket list and introduce me to theirs.
Wow, if you're out there (I am 'Forever Optimistic') I can't wait to meet you so don't expect a load of exchanges of messages. None of us on here are getting any younger, lets not waste our time on endless texting. I want to see the colour of your eyes to see if you have a compatible twinkle xx
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Newark, Nottinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Food / Catering | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NG24 (Newark) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
