In His Own Words
About him
I'm unusual, but in a nice way, with many interests, wide knowledge, love of travel, and I like exploring together. I have a PhD, but hate intellectual snobbery and bad manners; well, snobbery of any kind. I love the simpler things of life such as a country walk as much as travelling to (warm) far-flung places. Would love to share my love for classical music, theatre etc, with someone with similar interests, and/or likewise my love of languages. I'm relearning several languages lost through a busy life with work and family. Now retired there's time to do things you only longed for before. I love animals, but don't have any pets at the moment. Friends say I'm a great cook from living abroad.
I can be quirky, capricious, but also very deep-thinking. Friends say I have a lot of love to give, but so far...... The thing I miss most, despite a life full of interests and subtle pursuits, is the closeness and open honesty in a good relationship, even if it were at a good-friend level. I would love to share again the preciousness of being at one with somebody special in my life, and finding joy in even the simplest of things in life, like a tipple in front of a fire, or cuddled up on the sofa. What about you..? I don't foresee living with anyone, as I'd like us to have that good balance of independence and intimacy, but you never know. Get in touch and let's discover what's unique and special about each other. Perhaps it'd be good to start off being friends, and see how it goes? But again.. ..you never know till you meet.
About his ideal match
Someone unusual, perhaps a bit like me, who also loves cats, animals in general, Spain, exotic places, languages, exciting food, quiet pursuits etc, not necessarily all of them, but at least some. A lady who is sweet, kind, soft-spoken, and appreciates intimacy over carnal passion, although both would be ideal :-) Someone who is fully independent and dependable, as I believe in equality, and not needing to be with a man 24/7, thus giving each other space as well as closeness, someone who is quite complete in herself and wanting a soulmate or great friend to add to her life. Love of classical music would be a bonus, esecialy if you play a musical instrument, but it's the woman in you that's ultimately most important. So, what is your passion? :-)
Well, I hope I could be interesting for you to explore, and that together we could grow as I could learn more about you and what makes you special. Perhaps we could start off by bring friends first? Internet dating can be quite daunting, and it's only after meeting that we'd get an inkling where it might go from there (or not).
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About him
Country of origin: |
Ask me later | |
Location: |
Rochdale, Greater Manchester, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district OL2 (Oldham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher; Halaal; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; Spanish; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Latin; Opera |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Shopping; The arts; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Fencing; Horse Riding; Rowing; Shooting; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |