In His Own Words
About him
I'm a transgender man so I have the advantage of having been socialized differently than most men. I'm very compassionate, polite, a bit reserved with new people, kind-hearted, and affectionate. I'm finishing my BA, in my free time I teach myself Korean and learn dance choreography. I'm also trying to get back into reading and creative writing. I love music of various genres, but I think Pop and Kpop are my favorites. I don't pretend to be anything I'm not. I know I may not fit into the box of traditional masculinity but I love who I am, and I hope I can find someone who feels the same.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is a nerdy POC who plays a string instrument or does contemporary dance and loves animals.
Ideal is a lot to live up too. Music is important to me, I enjoy a variety of genres, and I would love someone who shared the same passion. I would love someone who played some sort of instrument, maybe wrote their own songs (not necessarily as a career, just a hobby is fine) or someone who had background as a dancer, singer, or photographer. Something artistic and creative.
I also love animals. Must love animals. I want someone kind-hearted, gentle, considerate, not afraid to show their emotions, wants a relationship to be an equal partnership.
Deal breaker is smokers, anyone who is very religious, or someone who would want me to go on various outdoor excursions. I like a nature walk but I'm not going to mountain climb, or bungee jump, or go white-water rafting with you. I think we should also have similar views on wanting kids and raising them. Gender equality, anti-racism and LGBTQ allyship is also important.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Austin, Texas, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
37 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Korean | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
26 - 36 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Korean | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Bowling; Dance; Football (Soccer); Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Showing affection in public; Power; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
