About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Uckfield (Tunbridge Wells), East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Ireland; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN7 (Hartfield) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
I am Brian, 73, 6’2”, slim, with blue eyes and sandy hair. I am a widower with – adult children and – grandchildren. I live in my own home in East Sussex.
Founder of a large Civil Engineering Company, now retired.
School in Kent, then out into the world to seek my fortune.
I read TheTimes and a range of biographies, history books and some thrillers.
I listen to Jazz, Blues, Classical, Vintage Pop & Rock and some Folk.
I enjoy visiting towns and cities of cultural interest in Europe – I find the architecture and art so inspiring. Good food and wines are a very important part of these adventures. When I’m on a relaxing sun holiday I like to swim, play some golf and watch the locals going about their business. Finding those great eateries is important here too, but I am happy to make do with beach snacks if it means missing the fun.
A warm and caring man, I’m practical, optimistic and possibly a bit sentimental at times. I have a lot of physical and mental energy– I’ve done a lot of fund raising for various charities over the years and I’m happy mixing concrete. I value humour for how it makes life that little bit lighter. Being a good listener, I’m aware of other people’s sensitivities. My family and friends, I need them in my life.
Golf, walking, running, skiing, swimming and my fully equipped home gym keep me fit.I like to watch rugby, golf and boxing.At home,I’m a keen gardener, landscaperand cook.
Enjoy dining out varying from good pub grub to fine dining.
I enjoy theatre, opera “ not heavy” Jazz venues.
Entertaining family and friends at home “light “ General socialising and being with family, a lot at the moment with grandchildren, and also enjoy my great friends, yet I sometimes need my own space, I’m sure we are all like this.
Sharing my life with a caring person who is compatible with me and may share some of my interests. Contentment Sharingmaking plans to enjoy the comforts in life that is out there.
About his ideal match
THE TYPE OF PERSON LOOKED FOR: Someone warm, gentle and kind, with a good sense of humour, energy, creativity, who likes to share. Humour is important. Someone who like adventure but also values home life
Summary of preferences: Looking for a widow, for the likely synergy and understanding between us. Also seeking a lady who will not be in a rush.
Non-smoker please.
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More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Faithful; Loving; Optimistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Boxing; Golf; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |