In Her Own Words
About her
I am outgoing, warm, and friendly. I am organised and can make things happen. I like good conversation, concerts, art galleries, museums, NT, HPB holidays, literature, theatre, films, good food, gardening and gardens, knitting, and cooking for friends and family. I have adult daughters and grandchildren who all live locally to me, and are an important part of my life.
Trained as a secondary school teacher I branched out into adult education and training; I still have my own counselling practice which I have had for over 30 years.
I hope to go swimming more regularly and find a Pilates class.
I am passionate about social justice, and fighting for those who have no voice, or have SEN, or their exhausted carers. I read The Guardian.
My friends would describe me as courageous, tenacious, and someone who would listen to them and not pass judgement. They would say I get things done. I dislike dishonesty and value truthfulness.
About her ideal match
I would like to meet a man who shares some of my interests. He would be educated to at least a first degree level. He would be kind and thoughtful with a sense of humour.
We would always find lots to talk about and enjoy time out together. I would like him to enjoy going to the theatre, reading literature, listening to music, and going to the places I mention in my write up. Eating good food at home or out would be pleasurable for both of us.
A deal breaker for me would be someone who still thinks Boris Johnson/UKIP/Brexit/Liz Truss/Kemi Badenoch are OK.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Wokingham, Berkshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RG2 (Reading) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
68 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Knitting; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Ice Skating; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |