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CuriousCat1980

44 – Colchester, Essex, England

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CuriousCat1980

44 – Colchester, Essex, England

Ok on my own but want better than ok

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Modified: 06 May 2024

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In Her Own Words

About her

Friends describe me as determined and smart, with a good sense of humour. I'm perpetually curious and love learning about people and topics I don't know about. I enjoy theatre, music, swimming, playing chess and listening to horse racing. I'd love to share company and conversation alongside some of these activities and am open to trying new things. For work I do several things including being a Non Executive Director for a housing association, testing websites for accessibility and production for performance artists. You'll see from my photo that I'm disabled and for transparency - as well as being a wheelchair user I'm blind. "Disabled" is not a body type so you can decide for yourself what body type I fit into - I think it's curvacious. Questions about my disability are natural and to answer the obvious ones which cross many minds - yes I can have an adult, intimate relationship and no I'm neither 100% dependent on carers nor expecting you to be my carer. Beyond that, if you're interested in getting to know me for other reasons, please ask about my disability in a way which falls in the middle of the spectrum between pure, instant nosiness and pretending it doesn't matter :-)

About her ideal match

I'm looking for someone open minded who enjoys conversation and would like to share theatre visitsor days out near the sea for example (though I'm open to trying new things too). I cook at home mostly but enjoy food out as well and more so in company. I like to eat fairly low carb most of the time but will deviate occasionally. I like you to take care of your health but not be obsessive about it, be confident but not arrogant, enjoy laughter. I'm looking for someone to talk to, share good times, hard times and life's mysteries. I like to spend quality time together and take care of each other whilst also respecting each other's needs for time and commitments outside our relationship. I do really want a long term relationship and to meet in person so I like to spend some time first getting to know each other through messaging and talking on the phone but if we get on well there, let's meet ASAP. Ideally I'd like to have or adopt a child. I recognise that my age and disability have a huge impact on this - but they don't make it impossible. If that can't happen, I'm hoping to find other ways of having children in my life through work or volunteering. So if you'd like to get to know me and don't want children please get in touch - but only if you can at least understand my wish for a child and don't think it's crazy or irresponsible.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Colchester, Essex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
44
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Other
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district CO2 (Colchester)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
33 - 63
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other; Stocky
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Yes; Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Kosher; Halaal
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Time
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long; Curly
Disabilities:
I have a visual impairment; I struggle with mobility
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Acting; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Canoeing; Chess; Horse Riding; Swimming; Water skiing
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Intelligence
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
On a beach
Retirement plans:
Doing voluntary work
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Very