In His Own Words
About him
Sometimes nuggets of gold are hidden in complicated situations. It takes a little panning in clear water to find them. What are you? A sliver of silver, a platter of platinum, or an ingot of gold perhaps?
As for me I'm an all rounder ~ the geeky scientific kind who's also arty (but not-too-farty!) with a whacky sense of humor, aka Monty Python & British/American TV humor from the 70s & 80s.
I studied sciences & computing at St John's, Durham & have worked in computer technical support. Retired now I'm a writer who enjoys copy editing & proof reading, with a semi-professional interest in counselling & psychology.
Brought up on classical music I now have very eclectic musical tastes. There’s almost always music of some kind playing in my house. Re visual entertainment I enjoy documentaries & movies, apart from horror & gratuitous violence. For current affairs I go online, selectively avoiding fake news channels tainted by the Loony Left & the Whacky Wokers!
For non-sporting hobbies I enjoy photography (have an eye for a good picture), playing acoustic guitar, theatre going & musical concerts, viewing fine art & high-class photography, playing tiddlywinks etc.
I'm sapiosexual &/or a sapiophile & have very few taboos. In hot weather I love to go au naturelle (circumstances permitting), & have even taken part in an artistic naked photo shoot with a female friend! Woo hoo! So if you're not put off by such things ~ "Let's get together & we'll be alright!" (thanks Bob)
Semi-retired, I'm an aspiring writer with a strong interest in various therapies, including massage (have worked professionally), sex & relationship therapy (much needed), & animal assisted therapy. To that end I have an unusually large number of beautiful cats who I love dearly😻meeoow! Does anybody want a kitten or three?
I've travelled in more than 30 countries & lived abroad a good deal, including India as a child where my parents ran a hospital. I’m currently in the French Champagne region but need to move elsewhere due to visa issues.
About his ideal match
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. . . continuing from above . . .
I’m hoping to meet an intelligent & caring animal lover who, like me, prefers to live in a warm bright climate. I moved away from the UK because of the lack of light in winter which triggers Seasonal Affective Disorder. However, I could be tempted back by the right feline loving, open minded, emotionally intelligent, wannabe-biker-chick / cycling enthusiast etc.
Sports wise I love motorcycling, cycling & all kinds of water sports, both in & on the wet stuff. Unfortunately none of that's really possible in Northern European winters. Hence my dream to go sunny 🌞 When finances allow I dream of owning a canal barge, or small yacht for lazy summer holidays, & hope to buy a camper van for longer road treks.
To sum up then, I'm a two-wheeled / water-sports man outdoors ... & indoors I love to get arty (but-not-unduly-farty) with a woman who’s warm hearted & well rounded emotionally speaking, & preferably physically also. Could that be you?
Do you exist? I do hope so!
MY IDEAL MATCH
If you can hold your own in articulate society & enjoy witty conversation ... or just being silly! . . .
If you enjoy showing affection (hugs, kisses etc) in both public & private . . .
If you enjoy having a cuddle on the sofa, or in bed or a bath, while talking about nothing in particular or watching an interesting/sexy movie or audio book . . .
If you understand that prudery is a sign of cultural taboos, or religious extremism, or possibly mental ill health, & that there's a wonderful erotic love poem in the Hebrew Scriptures (OT) ... search for 'the Song of Solomon' . . .
Then you'll be a (wo)man my son! 🤣 (lol)
That's loosely based on Rudyard Kipling's famous poem "If "
So ... IF all the above are true for you, as they are for me, then what do you think? Do we win Blind Date with Cilla Black or not? (It's a lorra lorra fun!) 😊
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Épernay, Champagne-Ardenne, France | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
18 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 169cm (5' 6.5") | ||
Body type: |
Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Bowls; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rowing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Snooker; Snorkeling; Softball; Squash; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
