In Her Own Words
About her
I'm looking for someone who wants to enjoy life together and find new places, past times and experienced together. I'm a lover of wide-ranging conversations, architecture ( hence the headline) and music and I want to medt someone whose travel horizons stretch beyond these shores. I'm politically aware but am moderate and have no time for extreme ideologies. I value positivity, fun and kindness. Most importantly, I value faithfulness, honesty and loyalty. I am a calm, patient and thoughtful person who wants to be with someone who prefers calm and positivity over anger, frustration and unkindness. I have a demanding career and value my free time, so it would be great to meet someone who understands that, even if your situation is not similar.
About her ideal match
My ideal match would be genuinely interested in building a relationship that would last. You would be able to integrate that into an already enjoyable life and not keep us as a secret or 'add on'. You would already be available for a new relationship, rather than yet to divorce. A great sense of humour, calm outlook on life and social skills are a must. You would be solvent and secure with a job or career you love or be retired and enjoying your well-deserved time off. Deal breakers - over 45 minutes travel time, lying and bad manners.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Havant (Rowlands Castle), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Dorset; East Sussex; Hampshire; London - Outer; Surrey; West Sussex (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 8" (204cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Mystery; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Cricket; Rowing; Skiing; Table Tennis; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |