In Her Own Words
About her
Good day to you..........
Maybe you relate, maybe not, but this feels intrepid for me and it is brave to put yourself 'out there', is it not - so good for you? We have at least, something in common at the basic level.....
I am a 'Nicola' but find that a little severe so Nic (pref) or Nikki, if the masculine sounding abbreviation is uncomfortable or not warm enough.
In description: open, honest, empathic, fun-loving, mischievous, funny, communicative, independent, relatively social (still appreciate own company though) up for new experiences and adventure.
I would looooove to say I was currently sporty and athletic but it would be a lie. I have a sporty mind in that I will try most things. Have made some further steps to regular Yoga and Pilates, very happy to be active and interested.
I love the diversity and spectrum of life, the beauty in nuance and very much appreciate those who share that point of view or who are at least open to new ideas, different ways of being.
On that note, I like a wide variety of things. Love to be out in nature, happy to walk and do more of it, I love good food and seriously contemplating a culinary week somewhere. I enjoy a range of music, I have sung in a choir, managed to do an amateur musical theatre production before 50 (tick that list), as I also like to dance. Have lived and worked overseas, interested in the esoteric, spiritual and a style that errs on the Bohemian. Love to explore. Always happy to learn.
About her ideal match
Ideal Match - think I alluded to that above but to summarise:
An energetic, active, positive and motivated person. Intelligent but not necessarily brilliant, not sure could keep up with that. They would not be a person who wishes to live in the past, someone instead who sees the opportunities of future ahead. Open-minded, honest and no bullshit. Emotionally intelligent, adventurous, a person who acts with integrity and is self-aware. Relatively non-judgemental (we all have biases but need to be aware), someone who enjoys their friendships and values family, relationships in general but who is also generally content in and within themselves. Independent but also happy in partnership. Likes to keep their home relatively well maintained but not necessarily immaculate.
I more than welcome financial ambition and security but for me it would be about the freedom that allows and not status. I also find a philanthropic view point very attractive as well as living by the understanding that "but for the grace of, go I". Someone who is, at the very least, open to alternate spiritual practices, cultures and ideas.
Someone I can be the best version of myself with and who finds themselves likewise with me. Happy in their own skin.
Not much of a list really but hey if shopping you need to know what you want do you not?! 😉
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Market Harborough, Leicestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district LE16 (Market Harborough) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Other; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight; Curly; It has its moods |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; New Age; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Singing; The arts |
Sports: |
Badminton; Dance; Horse Riding; Skiing; Squash; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
