In His Own Words
About him
I don't think I've ever got this bit right, but I'll try again. (Again.)
As a flavour, I'm more dog than cat, more choccie than cheese, more country than city, more white wine than red.
I go to live music, the cinema and pubs, but I also sit in the garden, sometimes with a book and sometimes thinking "I wish I knew what to do with this."
I can cook, I've made dresses for my granddaughter, and I can do stuff around the house.
I like a good book, a good thriller and a decent crossword, I play guitar and go to singarounds, I sing in a choir, and I probably talk a bit much (had you guessed?).
I've been told lots of times I'm a lovely man 'but...' so I'd really like to change the 'but...' to that next stage.
Not into one-nighters, I'm looking for someone to share adventures with, but also someone to just do nothing with.
Want to know anything else?
About his ideal match
Someone who wants to tell me about their life - today and yesterday - and who wants to share the small stuff and the big stuff. Someone who has their own life but wants someone else who has one of their own, too, and would like to share it with them
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Market Harborough (Lutterworth), Leicestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district LE17 (Lutterworth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
58 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Football (Soccer); Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Very |