In His Own Words
About him
I am a warm hearted, hugely respectful polite lover of life. I am well mannered and enjoy making the most of all life has to offer. I love using humour and enjoy articulate conversation (even, according to my friends, if sometimes I haven't got a clue what I'm talking about!!!)
I love good company. I love fine dining and good wines. I am a bit of a Francophile, although I love Italy, Spain and Portugal aswell.
I love all types of music and have made it an intrigal part of my life.
I love films and snuggling up in front of an open fire.
I adore the countryside and all it has to offer.
I think in the next couple of years, I will have dog.
I have few dislikes, just bad manners and rude people. I have a positive outlook on life.
I enjoy cooking, playing guitar, working on my personal development. I love cycling walking and sea swimming. I also enjoy skiing and hiking.
About his ideal match
My ideal match would be a kind sensitive woman, with similar values, who wants to join me on my journey to get the most out of life.
I would like her not to be insecure and to be able to enjoy genuine love.
A similar sense of humour would of great help to us both, as would the sharing of intellectual observations and ideas.
I would enjoy traveling around Europe, dining out and visiting the countryside.
Our relationship would work with honesty and respect with us both hopefully being on the same page.
A deal breaker for me would be drama and chaos.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Wandsworth, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Ireland; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
47 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Curling; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Rugby; Shooting; Snorkeling; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I moved to be away from them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |