In Her Own Words
About her
Why is it so difficult to find the right person? Still meeting a lot of rogues and time wasters hence my headline! Somewhere out there I’m sure there must be a good man waiting to meet a good woman.
OK I’m 70 but I’m young in body and spirit! My profile pic is February 2025, others end 2023. I’m very relaxed, kind, generous, loyal and loving with all my friends and would be exactly the same with the right man who eventually comes into my life. I’ve a cheeky sense of humour and I’ll laugh with you and maybe sometimes at you but am always the first to laugh at myself! Oh and I know my bad points - I’m impatient!
People seem to think if you’re on a dating site at 70 you must be looking for a ‘companion’. Let me be clear here - I already have one of those - he’s small, furry and has four legs! I’m looking for a ⚡️that might turn into a 🔥 So there has to be that initial attraction and chemistry. But I quote “physical attraction is only part of the formula - you also need laughter, music, food and friendship. You need honesty, trust, humility and a willingness to walk through the fire”.
I LIKE -
Spending time with friends
Music ( pop to classical, opera to C&W)
Teaching myself the piano (badly)
Reading
Gardening
Walking
Cooking
Italy and all things Italian
Watching cricket
Chelsea FC
I DISLIKE -
Players
Arrogance (have you really described yourself as ‘very attractive’ in your profile?)
Body piercings
Tattoos (If you’ve been in the Navy I might possibly forgive a small ⚓️ on one arm à la Popeye - if you’ve not heard of Popeye you’re probably too young for me!)
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If I’m not who you’re looking for then I wish you the best of luck in your search for the tiniest needle in this overwhelmingly large haystack x
About her ideal match
This is a tricky question as often being attracted to a certain person is completely inexplicable. For example I’d love a dinner date with James Corden and he’s no George Clooney! Elon Musk could keep me in diamonds from Tiffany’s - wonderful - but money doesn’t make him any less obnoxious!
What I DON’T want is a man who rushes in all guns blazing only to ghost me a day later - been there, done that! And if you happen to like me but don’t like dogs then you’re barking up the wrong tree - I’ll not give up my dog for any man no matter how wonderful you are!
I’d like to meet a man who actually says what he means and means what he says i.e. honest! A man who is comfortable with our ever changing modern world but who still has traditional values, integrity and is a gentleman. Please be kind, loyal, good company, have a cheeky sense of humour and be willing to have opposing views with someone without falling out over them! You’ll have some baggage - at this age we all do! But are you emotionally ready to share things with someone new?
If you can answer ‘yes’ to all the above then what are you waiting for? Message me!
I’m unlikely to reply to any cheesy one liners, anyone who is looking for an endless text thread without sharing a profile pic or anyone who can’t string a whole sentence together - sorry that’s just the way it is.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hereford, Herefordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district HR1 (Hereford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Dance; Football (Soccer); Golf; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |


