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JDW59

65 – Spalding (Between Spalding and King's Lynn), Lincolnshire, England

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JDW59

65 – Spalding (Between Spalding and King's Lynn), Lincolnshire, England

Refined widow seeks cultured friends

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Online: Monday

Modified: 26 April 2025

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In Her Own Words

About her

Hi!

I'm friendly, warm, loyal, sociable, and my friends know I'm a kind person. I tend to be restrained and formal with new acquaintances. After a while, they realise I am a tactile and huggy type of woman! I enjoy meeting new people and listening to their life experiences. I've got an optimistic frame of mind and look for the joys of simple things in everyday life.

I like loads of activities and I'm as active as I can be! I love to go out to eat; I participate in watching theatre shows; I go to the cinema; I like all sorts of music; I enjoy quiet times watching the telly; I enjoy putting the world to rights in a good old chin wag; I enjoy bowling; I regularly swim and do aquafit! I'd love to visit more stately homes, museums, or scenic walks/rides - especially on the coast. I'd be keen to explore bucket list possibilities with you! I love the sea and used to sail as a teenager. I'm game for any new adventures, within reason!

I am deeply spiritual and am a practicing Christian. My faith is integral to me and I'm happy to share my thoughts and feelings if anyone wants to know them, but I'd never shove it down anyone's throat, LOL! Think of me as a female Aled Jones!

Although I am active and like to get out and about, I do have reduced mobility. I can stand but not for long. I can walk but please don't race me to a finish line! If I need to go more than a short distance, I use a small mobility scooter, avoid anywhere with steps, and manage that all independently. I take a positive attitude to solving any challenges creatively! I enjoy driving my Motability car.

I'm blessed to have both a dog and a cat. The dog is almost 15 years old and was formerly my official assistance dog, a retired Canine Partner. My 13 year old cat is the sweetest, softest, shyest moggie ever. I love them both dearly.

I relax by watching telly, taking a hot shower, dressing in snuggly nightwear, drinking a hot chocolate, perhaps enjoying some aromatherapy scents, and heading to my bed alone (or with the cat). Bliss!

About her ideal match

I'd like to meet you if you are authentic and have integrity. Do you have a gentle, kind, patient nature and good manners? I would enjoy spontaneous outings with you, although I like to plan for future events together too.

You could be male or female. I am seeking platonic friendships with the ladies and am prepared to entertain a more romantic relationship with gentlemen. I am heterosexual but celibate since I was widowed. If you're male, I prefer clean shaven faces!

My ideal match would be a polite non-smoker, non-drinker, active and enthusiastic about life, who has great personal hygiene habits, who loves to chat, looks for the humour in situations, is cheerful and enjoys a laugh.

To make any relationship work, being honest and open, willing to be vulnerable and honourable, is the foundation of trust. It's essential.
I can't relax around anyone using foul language, cursing or blaspheming. Please be a person who understands that I can't abide a friend who lies, tries to manipulatee me, is unfaithful, or betrays my trust - deal breaker!

If you appreciate music, theatre, cinema and outings where you would like company, I'm happy to go along with you. Apart from watching Wimbledon, I'm not really into spectator sports.

I'm very family oriented. I'd love it if you have adult children or grandchildren to tell me about. I have a daughter who lives in a city 70 miles away. Now I live alone in my own home and would enjoy your company.

Don't be shy or worried - I'm very approachable - so please, reach out and we can explore the possibilities!

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Spalding (Between Spalding and King's Lynn), Lincolnshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
65
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Private school
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Other

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Guernsey; Ireland; Isle of Man; Jersey; United Kingdom
Location:
Ireland; Jersey; United Kingdom
Gender:
Female; Male
Age range:
52 - 72
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Health / Social Care
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite clothing:
My pyjamas
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Long; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Disabilities:
I struggle with mobility; I have a chronic illness
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Variety shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Acting; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Archery; Baseball; Basketball; Bowls; Pool; Scuba diving; Skiing; Softball; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; White water rafting; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Once a week
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Enjoying the comforts of home
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Extremely