In Her Own Words
About her
Hi!
I'm friendly, warm, loyal, sociable, and my friends know I'm a kind person. I tend to be restrained and formal with new acquaintances. After a while, they realise I am a tactile and huggy type of woman! I enjoy meeting new people and listening to their life experiences. I've got an optimistic frame of mind and look for the joys of simple things in everyday life.
I like loads of activities and I'm as active as I can be! I love to go out to eat; I participate in watching theatre shows; I go to the cinema; I like all sorts of music; I enjoy quiet times watching the telly; I enjoy putting the world to rights in a good old chin wag; I enjoy bowling; I regularly swim and do aquafit! I'd love to visit more stately homes, museums, or scenic walks/rides - especially on the coast. I'd be keen to explore bucket list possibilities with you! I love the sea and used to sail as a teenager. I'm game for any new adventures, within reason!
I am deeply spiritual and am a practicing Christian. My faith is integral to me and I'm happy to share my thoughts and feelings if anyone wants to know them, but I'd never shove it down anyone's throat, LOL! Think of me as a female Aled Jones!
Although I am active and like to get out and about, I do have reduced mobility. I can stand but not for long. I can walk but please don't race me to a finish line! If I need to go more than a short distance, I use a small mobility scooter, avoid anywhere with steps, and manage that all independently. I take a positive attitude to solving any challenges creatively! I enjoy driving my Motability car.
I'm blessed to have both a dog and a cat. The dog is almost 15 years old and was formerly my official assistance dog, a retired Canine Partner. My 13 year old cat is the sweetest, softest, shyest moggie ever. I love them both dearly.
I relax by watching telly, taking a hot shower, dressing in snuggly nightwear, drinking a hot chocolate, perhaps enjoying some aromatherapy scents, and heading to my bed alone (or with the cat). Bliss!
About her ideal match
I'd like to meet you if you are authentic and have integrity. Do you have a gentle, kind, patient nature and good manners? I would enjoy spontaneous outings with you, although I like to plan for future events together too.
You could be male or female. I am seeking platonic friendships with the ladies and am prepared to entertain a more romantic relationship with gentlemen. I am heterosexual but celibate since I was widowed. If you're male, I prefer clean shaven faces!
My ideal match would be a polite non-smoker, non-drinker, active and enthusiastic about life, who has great personal hygiene habits, who loves to chat, looks for the humour in situations, is cheerful and enjoys a laugh.
To make any relationship work, being honest and open, willing to be vulnerable and honourable, is the foundation of trust. It's essential.
I can't relax around anyone using foul language, cursing or blaspheming. Please be a person who understands that I can't abide a friend who lies, tries to manipulatee me, is unfaithful, or betrays my trust - deal breaker!
If you appreciate music, theatre, cinema and outings where you would like company, I'm happy to go along with you. Apart from watching Wimbledon, I'm not really into spectator sports.
I'm very family oriented. I'd love it if you have adult children or grandchildren to tell me about. I have a daughter who lives in a city 70 miles away. Now I live alone in my own home and would enjoy your company.
Don't be shy or worried - I'm very approachable - so please, reach out and we can explore the possibilities!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Spalding (Between Spalding and King's Lynn), Lincolnshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Guernsey; Ireland; Isle of Man; Jersey; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Ireland; Jersey; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
52 - 72 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility; I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Archery; Baseball; Basketball; Bowls; Pool; Scuba diving; Skiing; Softball; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |