In Her Own Words
About her
Interested in art, sciences, history, psychology and mental health. Hobbies include reading, writing, art, theatre, walks and gardening. Love learning new things. Bit of a scattergun as there's so much to explore in one lifetime.
Hate liars and cheats. Friends describe me as intelligent. compassionate, caring, honest, funny and talented but at what I haven't decided yet!
Looking for commitment be they a future friend or partner. They need to be honest and reliable. I ditch those who aren't politely but rapidly.
I've worked in healthcare, in stage theatre, ran my own business once, and worked in admin and ops management cos I like variety worldwide.
Catching up on science and history cos I didn't study it much at school. Sensitive to others needs but not to the exclusion of my own. I have a very well managed mental health condition hence interest in psychology and mental health generally.
Currently recruiting staff for NHS mental health services but might go back into live events doing some admin.
Confident in myself most of the time, less so in others so may need help with that😂 Friends and family are looking out for a special someone for me too. I usually stay on friendly terms with ex partners at least until they find their ideal partner. I don't suddenly stop caring. 😊 Been content on my own for a while but miss the companionship of a close partner.
I'm not motivated by money or power or job titles. I don't like crudeness, thank you but have a very broad sense of humour. Being half English and half Irish, I think you have to! Yes I can talk for England, cos I was born here but have a strong Irish side. I can and do like to be quiet too especially away from the public eye.
Feel free to message me with your favourite classical music piece and tell me why you like it! And I'll get back to you. 😊
About her ideal match
Honest, dependable, fun with varied interests. An organiser but not a fusspot; an easy going, calming influence. someone who likes a busy work life and quiet home life. My ideal chap must be sensitive to other people's needs and know their strengths and weaknesses and able to talk openly in a relaxed way about anything. Someone who is reflective, ideally creative and logical. Someone who can analyse but also knows when to stop to just live in the moment.
It would be helpful if there's a genuine interest in mental health. To me personality is far more important than looks.
I'm not attracted to sporty, ultra ambitious types. I don't mind geeks as I love men with practical skills. I'm quite clumsy and would like to learn DIY, carpentry, woodwork.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bedford, Bedfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Guernsey; Ireland; Isle of Man; Jersey; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
54 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Gemini; Cancer; Libra; Sagittarius; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Legal; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Public sector; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Polish; Spanish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
English; French; Gaelic / Irish; Polish; Romanian; Spanish; Welsh | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Disabilities: |
I have a mental condition |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Knitting; Painting; Pottery; Sculpting; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Chess; Hang- / Paragliding; Orienteering; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Indian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
