In His Own Words
About him
Friends say I’m grounded and thoughtful — someone who listens more than he speaks.
I find joy in still evenings, warm tea, and meaningful presence. If you’re seeking depth over drama, maybe we’re not far apart.
About his ideal match
A calm, emotionally intelligent woman — someone curious, elegant, and grounded.
You value softness, presence, and truth over attention-seeking or performance.
You know real connection takes time. You’re not loud — but unforgettable.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Reigate (Purley), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Halaal | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Middle Eastern | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district CR8 (Kenley / Purley) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
24 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Leo | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Grey | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian; Vegan; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; Urdu | ||
Other languages: |
English; Arabic | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Music Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Badminton; Golf; Hiking; Pool; Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I moved to be away from them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
