In Her Own Words
About her
I’m happiest outdoors—whether it’s swimming at dusk, walking cliff paths, gardening, or playing tennis with friends. I love spontaneity: heading out for a swim after a long day or dancing around the kitchen while cooking dinner. Now the cold weather’s here, I’m more inclined to enjoy a glass of something warming by the fire, though I still relish a crisp winter’s day. I also love to surround myself with joy, hosting friends and family for holiday parties and celebrations.
I’m curious about other people’s passions (firm no to bungee jumping though). Theatre, live music, and laughter are essentials. Summer means long evenings around the firepit with friends; winter calls for a cosy pub snug and a game of cards.
Languages are another love—I’ve lived in Italy, speak decent French (with the occasional “Fritalian” slip), and know a handful of Greek phrases.
I play a little piano, sing when the mood takes me, and my music taste ranges from Einaudi to Green Day, with plenty in between.
About her ideal match
What I’m seeking above all is connection—the kind built on curiosity, laughter, and the quiet comfort of being truly understood.
I’m drawn to someone emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, and playful; someone who listens to understand, not just to reply. You don’t need to love sea swims or speak fluent French, but if you’re up for spontaneous adventures, windswept walks, and sharing a little everyday magic, we’ll get along.
Kindness, independence, and clear communication go a long way. Life gets messy sometimes, so I’m drawn to someone who can stay grounded and keep a sense of humour through it all.
Bonus points if you can make me laugh until my cheeks ache, or surprise me with a great playlist. Non‑smokers only, please.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Rye, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Italian | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Croatia; Ireland; Italy; Netherlands; Switzerland; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
32 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Gaelic / Irish; Italian | ||
Other languages: |
English; French; Gaelic / Irish; Italian | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Romance |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Gardening; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Horse Riding; Pool; Rowing; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
