In His Own Words
About him
Im a grown man with the personality of a Hobbit. I enjoy shows, staying in, going out, gardening, history, running, gym, and most of all, tea.
I'm originally from Tonbridge in Kent, and still enjoy visiting my close friends and family there, now living in Holbeach.
I work self employed as a barber, I also run an E- commerce store and am a Royal Navy reserve. I am a father of 3 children, 2 of whom have a disability that affects their mobility, so I also care for them, they are otherwise typical children (its a muscle issue, not a mental issue) i have joint custody of them.
I'm looking for somebody who wants to share in a relaxed, loving and calm relationship, or even just friendship.
About his ideal match
Im looking for no drama. The most important things to me are someone who is calm, loving, someone who is willing to get to know my friends (and I, theirs), do things together, and most importantly somebody who is loyal.
A deal breaker for me would be bi-polar. I have come out of a relationship with someone who is diagnosed with bi polar, and although there are no hard feelings shared. It was too hard for me to deal with. Also cheating, and by extension, polyamory and all of those, are absolute deal breakers.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Holbeach (Spalding), Lincolnshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
31 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district PE12 (Spalding) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
28 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Opera; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Photography; Politics; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Body building; Bowling; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Fencing; Hiking; Martial arts; Rugby; Snooker; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Socially |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
