In Her Own Words
About her
Do you like picking blackberries for a christmas hols apple & blackberry crumble (probably low carb version now!), seeing Badgers at dusk with the dog's nightime stroll, wonderful views and a dawn chorus worthy of the jungle! Another adventure relocating here to IOW so would like to share exploring and living here. Enjoy my gardening. I often start working early hrs and enjoy an early night after homecooked dinner, sometimes with bit of tv in bed although not much of a tv watcher! Love my quiet times by my large windows. Enjoy my flexible working mostly from home as an estate planner and specialist mediator. Worked in London 20 yrs mostly for solicitors. Like my own company balanced with being easily sociable and great conversation. Practical, resourceful, love creativity. Would love similar positive practical energy around me. Been a writer since i could hold a pencil, love poetry, great cook, analytical,, empathic, dont suffer fools, interested in most things. Plain speaking and perceptive.
Creative, inventive, INFJ/ENFP. connect mentally so like authentic, open minded flexible original thinking, no rigid or uninformed opinions Not Reform or Brexit. Ill support your interests. Happy to be introduced to new things. Never mastered riding a bike! Patience, kindness & generous heart imp as is self awareness. Im a loyal, devoted, one man woman who will fight your corner.
Relocated dec 22 after traumatic sequence of events from pandemic. Life needs a bit of magic and smiles. Seek true friend. Love a dance and a party. State of politics/country bothers me greatly, garden, landscape & stunning views keep me sane. Like a bit of fun and lots of laughter. One photo at 80s boat party, local blues festival, in my office, a fishing trip and sea was a bit rough ! On holiday on my own in much loved skiathos restaurant overlooking harbour and at a beach bar.
About her ideal match
Im not prescriptive about this but i know that i respond well to a warmhearted, generous and kind, self aware person. Sociable, fairly spontaneous, not black & white. Matured in life and emotionally. Independent like me but perhaps looking for a future that is better with two if it is with the right person. Ready smiles but real. I have tons of life and difficult experiences which ive grown from, but dont pretend lifes a peach, so Im real, down to earth, compassionate and hope you can concur. Good communicator that can listen as well as talk. Perhaps youll enjoy gardens, bbqs, good company, beach, boats and sunsets with classic fm (thats the site we are on after all !) or a good murder mystery with a home cooked meal and a ready supply of hugs and kisses with tea, which cures just about anything. Dance a bit, anyone can smooch! Perhaps a self motivator but dont take yourself too seriously and can laugh, relax & enjoy a good social event. I can laugh uncontrollably at my kids dry sense of humour when my funny bone is tickled and i love to see your face light up when you smile. Enjoy little adventures to keep life interesting, fine dining or good home cooked local farm food. I intermittent fast for health benefits. Picnics in secluded spots as much as a flask on the beach at sunset. Youll be confident in any social setting, knowledgeable, able to discuss most things, reasonably practical, confident & comfy in your own skin, warm, thoughtful, kind and good company.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Ventnor (Niton. Isle of Wight), Isle of Wight, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO38 (Ventnor) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Black; Blue; Brown; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Camping; Dance; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Seafood; Thai |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
