In Her Own Words
About her
Direct, open, perceptive and thoughtful, articulate, hard working who loves a good conversation. Quite business minded and enjoy working. Worked in London for lawyers for many years, loved it, friends there, back to my roots now living in beautiful landscape. My two children are my family whom I adore. Enjoy balance of home life and interesting things to do. Great cook. Emotionally mature, curious, always learning. Resilient with shitometer set to zero now. Dont like confrontation or dramas but dependable with optimistic solutions based outlook. Interests in current affairs, poetry, many things actually. Creative, inventive, INFJ/ENFP. Love a home or garden project. The way to a connection and to my heart is through connecting mentally however that may be. Open minded flexible original thinking, dont do rigid or uninformed opinions Not Reform or Brexit or think woke is an insult. Ill happily support your endeavours and interests whether or not I share them, and would hope for the same. Happy to be introduced to new things too. Did own 6 berth motorhome, loved driving to little adventures at weekends like Battle Proms but sadly now sold. Can do muddy boots and fine dress. Adore art and creativity, friends may say im a bit eccentric, but to me that just means have my own mind and dont run with the crowd. Dont have to be out and doing all the time, just as happy with a window, rain or sun, music or silence and pen and paper and good company. Take a keen interest studying effects of diet and nutrition.
Moved here dec 22. Love the beautiful landscape surrounded by nature i live in, have worked hard rebuilding life after consequences of pandemic so not had time to explore. id love to share that with someone now. Who'd have thought it would get so hard to meet potential partners as the years go by. One photo at an 80s boat party, one at local blues festival, in my office one on a fishing trip and sea was a bit rough ! On holiday on my own in skiathos restaurant overlooking harbour and in beach bar with rum & coke!
About her ideal match
Youll be warmhearted, generous and kind, self aware and sociable. Matured in life and emotionally. Independent like me but perhaps looking for a future that is better with two if it is with the right person. Ready smiles but real, positive can do disposition. I have tons of life and difficult experiences which ive grown from, but dont pretend lifes a peach, so Im real, down to earth and compassionate and hope you can concur. You are not looking to change me nor acquire company for your own pursuits but wanting a genuine relationship where the others happiness is as important. Perhaps youll enjoy gardens and growing, bbqs, good company, beach, boats and sunsets with classic fm (thats the site we are on after all !) and wine or a good murder mystery with a home cooked meal and a little dance in the kitchen. Youll be sociable and must be able to dance a bit, anyone can smooch! You dont take yourself too seriously and can laugh and relax. Enjoy little adventures to keep life interesting eg I enjoy fine dining, good simple local food, eg here or wherever I go; theatre/concerts, picnics in secluded spots as much as chips on the beach at sunset so hope you do too. Youll be sociable, confident in any social setting, perhaps strong minded intellectually and able to discuss most things, comfy in your own skin, warm and good company. None of this is BS so be sure you read. Thanks
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Ventnor (Niton. Isle of Wight), Isle of Wight, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO38 (Ventnor) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Black; Blue; Brown; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Camping; Dance; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Seafood; Thai |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |











