In Her Own Words
About her
A recent transplant to Dorset, I have been hibernating for far too long and need to break free from the shackles of never ending (but almost complete!) home renovations. Happy, sociable, kind, emotionally intelligent, adventurous, a good and loyal friend- that's me. I’’m keen to try local restaurants and new local delights or just stay home. Together, we could make a sumptuous Sunday lunch or have a dinner party with good friends. I’m Canadian, so I BBQ in all weathers. Let’s create a reason to get dressed up and have a dinner date. A cuddle on the garden sofa wrapped in blankets with a fire and a snifter of cognac is good too. I love travel, adventure, exploring and entertaining, creating, being, endlessly tinkering around the house and listening to an eclectic range of music (of course!). I have had a brilliant career working and living internationally. It is rumoured (or perhaps a fact or we could agree I'm making this up) that the Dalai Lama said you must visit five new places every year. I try to do something new every week to keep things fresh and exciting- turn right instead of left, do point and drive holidays etc. I have no children but I welcome other people's and love family life- even if there are just two people in the family. Although my two dogs have shuffled off this mortal coil, I remain a steadfast dog lover. I'm looking for the same characteristics in my ideal man. Are you out there?
About her ideal match
If you're my ideal guy, you'll be a bit of a live wire, a good conversationalist, cheeky, happy, strong and caring. I have recently lost both of my beloved hounds, so would be delighted if you brought one (or more!) to the party. You'll be a generously spirited gentleman who lives life with gusto, kindness, humour and passion, who values and respects the people in his life. You won't be perfect, so we'll be a matching set. A good heart trumps a physical persona. Are you the guy to make me laugh and be my friend?
Do you have any James Bond characteristics? You will be the first person I want to call when there is something exciting or mundane to tell. You love planning adventures, so I look forward to being whisked off! What would your shoes tell me about you? Do you like entertaining, travelling, being quiet, reading, cooking? Are you a good host? What would you bring to a relationship? Do you have a good set of power tools? Do you (could you) love Toots Thielman and Mel Torme? As I'm new-ish to the area, I need you to introduce me to your secret spectacular destinations.
Main photo taken July 2025
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About her
Country of origin: |
Canada | |
Location: |
Poole, Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
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Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
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No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
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Within 40 miles of postcode district BH15 (Poole) | ||
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