NewmanXL

38 – Harlow, Essex, England

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NewmanXL

38 – Harlow, Essex, England

Newman, red wine and a conversation

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Online: 10 January 2026

Modified: 09 January 2026

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In His Own Words

About him

Single dad first, everything else second. Between work and martial arts training, I’m just looking for someone real to talk to. Not rushing into anything—I’m still rebuilding, but I know what matters now.
Love adrenaline, deep conversations, and maybe the idea of hunting ghosts one day (seriously). If you value honesty, connection, and a bit of sarcasm, say

About his ideal match

Someone who is invested in herself and would love to share her investments. Likes to try new things and get into conversations from the get go

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Harlow, Essex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
38
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Black
Eye colour:
Black
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Political / Government
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Asian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Hindi; Urdu
Religion:
Other

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district CM17 (Harlow)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
25 - 82
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 9" (176cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Slightly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Personality traits:
Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Medium
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; New Age; Rock
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Adult; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Acting; Meditation; Music
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Athletics; Badminton; Boxing; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Pool; Shooting; Weight training; Wrestling; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very