In His Own Words
About him
Single dad first, everything else second. Between work and martial arts training, I’m just looking for someone real to talk to. Not rushing into anything—I’m still rebuilding, but I know what matters now.
Love adrenaline, deep conversations, and maybe the idea of hunting ghosts one day (seriously). If you value honesty, connection, and a bit of sarcasm, say
About his ideal match
Someone who is invested in herself and would love to share her investments. Likes to try new things and get into conversations from the get go
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Harlow, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Hindi; Urdu | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district CM17 (Harlow) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
25 - 82 | ||
Star sign: |
Cancer | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; New Age; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Meditation; Music |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Boxing; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Pool; Shooting; Weight training; Wrestling; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |

