In Her Own Words
About her
Get to know me if you’re interested in someone a bit different.
I prefer real over fake and can rock wellies just as confidently as heels (weather permitting).
In another era I’d definitely have been the resident geek — endlessly curious, slightly nerdy, and happy talking science, languages, or why Brian Cox makes the universe even cooler.
I’m a fan of great conversation over coffee (black and fresh), cocktails, or a gin and tonic — in a cosy café or somewhere a little more refined. Fish and chips or lobster with asparagus are very welcome
About her ideal match
My perfect match will be authentic, thoughtful, and quietly confident.
They will be comfortable in their own skin, value honesty over appearances, and not feel the need to impress for the sake of it.
They will be naturally curious about the world and enjoy learning and exploring ideas simply because they interest them.
They will be a good conversationalist who listens as well as they speak, with a warm, understated sense of humour. They will value depth over small talk and connection over performance.
Most of all, they will be open-minded, grounded, and genuinely interested in getting to know someone for who they really are
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Islington, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district N19 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Fencing; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
