In Her Own Words
About her
I'm intelligent, independent, honest, and love few things more than a good laugh. Can be quite fiery and enjoy a healthy debate. Although actually somewhat shy, it's extremely unlikely that I would ever be described as a shrinking violet. Feminine but not an uber 'girlie girl' - I drink beer, don't wear make-up every waking moment, and actually enjoy watching (some) sports on telly. I don't consider shopping a pastime, but enjoy it when I need something and have the funds available. A brush with melanoma in my late 20s led to the religious use of sunblock, so my skin has fared pretty well, all things considered. But my once rather striking looks have obviously faded with age, so anyone putting a high priority on appearance should save precious time and stop reading now.
I work for myself (IT), so my schedule is fairly flexible. Walking in the countryside, reading, listenting to music and road trips are my favourite ways to spend free time. Possesed of a reasonable degree of artistic talent, but have not focused on that in years - hoping to revive and improve my skills once retired. Fond of travel, but not airplanes, though I can force myself onto them when the need arises.
Better at baking than cooking. Not a foodie, rather picky actually, and mostly avoid meat because of the way farmed animals are treated. I love animals, especially dogs, but don't currently have any pets. The charities that get my support are generally those that focus on groups/things less able (or unable) to help themselves - animals, children and the environment.
I've become too aware of the ever-increasing speed with which time is passing. Hoping to find someone to share enjoyment with before the sand runs out of the hourglass. Prefer to meet someone reasonably local to me; don't want to spend too much of the time that remains on commuting.
Still here? Read on if you're curious to know if you might make the cut. ;-)
About her ideal match
Must-haves: intelligence, integrity, a sense of humour that chimes with mine, and decent teeth (not Turkey teeth, just teeth that look like a reasonable degree of effort is expended in cleaning/maintaining them).
Nice-to-haves: taller than me (to save you scrolling through my profile, I'm 5'7"), values recycling (that's nearly a must-have), has similar interests, has emotional intelligence, knows what an ellipsis is (and the correct number of dots it contains).
Probably not worth listing the 'too-good-to-be-true' items, because as most people who have lived this long know: someone can tick all the boxes, but you may not click, and conversely you may get on like a house afire with someone who leaves some of the boxes unticked.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Haywards Heath, West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district BN6 (Hassocks) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Outspoken; Sensible; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Independent |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Cricket; Golf; Hiking; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





