In Her Own Words
About her
My friends would describe me as bubbly, attentive and positive.
I am interested mostly in art, architecture, travelling and learning different cultures and spaces. I studied architecture as my education, and my current job allows me to travel and connect with people who create buildings and structures. A lot of my hyperfixations are on all things to do with beauty, but I also geek about science fiction stories, fantasy and comic books. I am one of those who think it's important to romanticise your life and making deep connections. I don't think social media is insidious when people use it positively. I have very eclectic taste in music - from heavy metal to country music to hip hop and R&B. I'm a born and raised Londoner and my parents are middle class Nigerian immigrants. They have provided my sister and I an upbriging we are proud of yet humble about. I'm very attentive to people's nature and genuity and even pay attention to the littlest of gestures like taking a walk together in a comfortable silence. Activities that bring me joy is relaxing at home and looking after my 3 year old dog Audrey. We both are looking for someone we're comfortable with sharing our world with :)
About her ideal match
I'm looking for seomone who is genuine, naturally likes to give, likes to travel, and likes to grow and bring out the best in themselves and the people they have in their circle. Someone who is self aware of their strengths and flaws, someone who is naturally protective but not controlling or selfish about it.
What would help me to open up to someone, (it takes me a while to make meaningful connections), is emotional intelligence, attentiveness and listening to not respond but to allow each other to vent without judgement. I'm also very decisive on how you connect with your other relationships (family, friends) and who you prioritse. I'm not very close with my family, but we still come together for family vacations and are very protective of each other. I'm looking for someone with the same level of self awareness of their own family dynamics. A deal breaker for me is someone who is inconsiderate or lacks self awareness.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Barnet (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
35 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Austria; Belgium; France; Italy; Switzerland; United Kingdom; Canada; United States; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Virgo; Sagittarius; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Knitting; Painting; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Hiking; Ice Hockey; Running; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
