In Her Own Words
About her
So,,I think my friends would describe me as being outgoing happy, friendly, honest, loyal, caring and a big animal lover. I’m not a drama queen, I don’t do Botox/fillers , so I’m pretty much low maintenance 🙂,but I do care about my appearance. I have been told on many occasions that I do not look any where near my age and I certainly don’t feel it ! I put it down to loving life, being positive and being grateful to what I have around me.
I’ve worked with difficult teenagers for 16 years, so my emotional intelligence has been crucial in trying to help them move forward.
My other line of work was having a successful mobile hairdressing business, I retired 3 years ago.
I like to travel abroad ,weekends away, i do like a cruise now and then. I’m a member of the national trust, nice walks with a pub en route 😉.
I love gardening ,I’ve just bought a greenhouse so it will be interesting to see how green my fingers really are !
I play carpet bowls once a week , online scrabble and the daily ‘Wordle’ puzzle . I am part of a walking group that meets once a week .
I’m good at decorating and a bit of DIY. I also like painting stones/rocks.
I’ll listen to most genres of music apart from heavy rock , I love a music festival, I like to think I’m a spiritual kind of person. I believe in God and I feel a strong connection to the universe and I’m very blessed to have an amazing family, with no feuds or fallouts.
I have 2 wonderful children and a very kind, loving well behaved and intelligent 5 year old grandson.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for a happy, smiley, outgoing and fun loving guy, who takes care in their appearance.
Some one who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and likes to have a laugh and a bit of banter. I would like to get to know someone to see if we have things in common, see if we get along, and hopefully make a meaningful connection.Ideally I would love to find my soulmate.
Maybe they could introduce me to some new activities (apart from swimming the channel or cycling around Europe ) 😅. I’m not very sporty, but I am very active as I do my own exercise routines at home . I used to Ski many years ago , I’m quite fit and healthy and I’m not on any medication.
I also walk my 2 dogs twice a day . It would help if you like cats as I have 3 🙀.
What I’m not looking for is someone who’s needy, narcissistic, rude, moody, possessive or doesn’t drive.
I apologise now if I do not respond to your message, it just means that I don’t feel you are a match for me. Sorry, but I wish you luck in your search.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Westerham, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN8 (Edenbridge) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
56 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Bowls; Camping; Dance; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |












