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HappyJ

68 – Westerham, Kent, England

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HappyJ

68 – Westerham, Kent, England

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Online: Thursday

Updated: 17 April 2026

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In Her Own Words

About her

So,,I think my friends would describe me as being outgoing happy, friendly, honest, loyal, caring and a big animal lover. I’m not a drama queen, I don’t do Botox/fillers , so I’m pretty much low maintenance 🙂,but I do care about my appearance. I have been told on many occasions that I do not look any where near my age and I certainly don’t feel it ! I put it down to loving life, being positive and being grateful to what I have around me.
I’ve worked with difficult teenagers for 16 years, so my emotional intelligence has been crucial in trying to help them move forward.
My other line of work was having a successful mobile hairdressing business, I retired 3 years ago.
I like to travel abroad ,weekends away, i do like a cruise now and then. I’m a member of the national trust, nice walks with a pub en route 😉.
I love gardening ,I’ve just bought a greenhouse so it will be interesting to see how green my fingers really are !
I play carpet bowls once a week , online scrabble and the daily ‘Wordle’ puzzle . I am part of a walking group that meets once a week .
I’m good at decorating and a bit of DIY. I also like painting stones/rocks.
I’ll listen to most genres of music apart from heavy rock , I love a music festival, I like to think I’m a spiritual kind of person. I believe in God and I feel a strong connection to the universe and I’m very blessed to have an amazing family, with no feuds or fallouts.
I have 2 wonderful children and a very kind, loving well behaved and intelligent 5 year old grandson.

About her ideal match

I’m looking for a happy, smiley, outgoing and fun loving guy, who takes care in their appearance.
Some one who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and likes to have a laugh and a bit of banter. I would like to get to know someone to see if we have things in common, see if we get along, and hopefully make a meaningful connection.Ideally I would love to find my soulmate.
Maybe they could introduce me to some new activities (apart from swimming the channel or cycling around Europe ) 😅. I’m not very sporty, but I am very active as I do my own exercise routines at home . I used to Ski many years ago , I’m quite fit and healthy and I’m not on any medication.
I also walk my 2 dogs twice a day . It would help if you like cats as I have 3 🙀.
What I’m not looking for is someone who’s needy, narcissistic, rude, moody, possessive or doesn’t drive.
I apologise now if I do not respond to your message, it just means that I don’t feel you are a match for me. Sorry, but I wish you luck in your search.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Westerham, Kent, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
68
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Secondary
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Other

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN8 (Edenbridge)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
56 - 69
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Curly; Wild
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; World
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing
Sports:
Aerobics; Bowls; Camping; Dance; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Chilled
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Gardening
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power
The deep stuff
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very