In Her Own Words
About her
Creative, thoughtful and quietly observant. I’m drawn to music that moves me, beautiful old places, and time outdoors — preferably with someone who can appreciate them too.
I value kindness, intelligence and emotional depth, and I feel most at home in meaningful conversation rather than small talk. Family, true friendship and a love of animals are at the heart of who I am.
I’m feminine and warm, yet independent and reflective. In my own time, I write and produce my own music, and when I’m not doing that, you’ll find me gardening, reading, or walking my dog.
Life feels richer with humour, positivity, and the right person to share a good coffee with.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for a masculine man who is emotionally available and grounded — quietly strong rather than ego-driven. Someone intelligent, kind and fun with a good heart. A gentleman.
I’m drawn to a man who values depth over surface, who is comfortable with meaningful conversation, warmth and emotional intelligence. Kindness, communication and integrity matter deeply to me, as do family and shared values — and a love of animals is always a bonus!
Ultimately, I’d love to meet someone open to exploring what could grow from a true connection where there's chemistry, equality and respect that could lead to a future together.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Maidstone (Gillingham), Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district ME8 (Gillingham) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
41 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Long |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Drama |
Interests: |
Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Badminton; Running; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
