In His Own Words
About him
Sometimes the world feels loud, but kindness doesn’t need to be. A quiet smile, a patient moment, or a soft word can change the shape of someone’s day. You don’t have to do anything grand to make a difference — simply being thoughtful, steady, and human is enough. Even the smallest kindness can ripple further than you realise.
About his ideal match
Emotional steadiness — someone who handles conflict calmly, listens well, and communicates with clarity rather than defensiveness.
Shared values — not identical opinions, but similar principles around respect, kindness, responsibility, and how they treat others.
Mutual support — a person who encourages growth, respects boundaries, and understands that healthy relationships require balance and reciprocity.
Curiosity and openness — someone willing to learn, adapt, and explore new ideas without judgment.
Reliability — they follow through on commitments, show consistency, and create a sense of safety in day‑to‑day interactions.
Humour and warmth — not necessarily comedic, but able to bring lightness and ease into conversations and shared experiences.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Salford, Greater Manchester, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Switzerland; United Kingdom; Canada; United States; Virgin Islands (USA); Australia; New Zealand | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
27 - 34 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Independent |
Valued qualities: |
Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
White |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Jazz |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Sports: |
Running |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Honesty: |
Very |
