In Her Own Words
About her
I won’t pretend to be something I’m not — what you see is what you get, and I think that’s rarer than it should be. I’m the kind of person who researches everything (yes, I know exactly which foods add years to your life — I just haven’t fully committed to eating them yet). I show up when it matters and genuinely care about the people in my life. I’ve been through loss, which has made me more grateful than bitter. Curious, loyal, still a work in progress — which honestly makes me more interesting than I probably give myself credit for.
About her ideal match
I’m not looking for perfect — I’m looking for real. Someone kind, who can laugh at life’s little absurdities (and maybe at themselves too). Someone who values honesty over putting on a show, and who’d rather have a genuine conversation than an impressive one. If you’ve been through hard times and come out the other side a little wiser and a little softer, we’ll probably get along just fine. My perfect match isn’t someone who has it all figured out — he’s just someone who’s good-hearted, good company, and happy to take things one step at a time.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Nettlebed (Crowmarsh Gifford), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Sewing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Baseball; Dance; Hiking; Horse Riding; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
